Until recently, a woman with a child after the divorce evoked sympathy and compassion on the part of the society, because she gained the status of a single mother and took up the upbringing of her child. However, to date, the situation at the root has changed and has acquired a completely different color. Now a woman who alone grows a baby, is much less likely to appear in the eyes of others as a victim. She is increasingly perceived as an independent and independent person, that she made such a difficult decision and did not lose heart after the divorce. But despite this, most women who have been victims of these circumstances and forced to live with a child without a father, completely drop their hands. After all, a woman begins to think that the baby will never grow up, and in his personal life the "wind of change" will never blow.
The Psychological Aspect
Representatives of the stronger sex sometimes motivate their departure from the family, where the child is unprepared to raise a child, and the reluctance to leave the child with him after a divorce - fear of losing his independence. That's how women with a child after a divorce remain one on one with a baby. Of course, it is very difficult for women to come to terms with this situation, because she has a vivid picture in the subconscious that the man is the head of the family, the father and the mentor, and the woman is his right hand in the upbringing of the child. But this picture is very exaggerated, even despite the fact that it represents a full-fledged family in which the father of the child is present, he is also a husband. This is a simple idyll, when the child is surrounded by care and affection from both sides, both father and mother. It is for this reason, the woman, divorcing her husband, is severely suffering a break, which in turn affects the child.
Fatherlessness
Not paying all the difficulties that fell to the lot of a woman, she must surround the child with care and warmth doubly, replacing him in his image, not only a caring mother, but also a loving father. But, of course, fatherless leaves a negative imprint on the baby. Especially if the parents' divorce took place when the child already consciously understands what happened most often, after the divorce. The woman begins to echo that all men are bad and nothing good from them is worth waiting for. If a child is a boy, he is much more difficult to endure all this, because they talk about his father. In addition, the child can develop a sense of guilt about the fact that he is also a representative of the stronger sex. All this can affect the self-esteem of a child who can acquire feminine notes in his character. My father is not around, here is an example of the demonstration of the masculine principle is also absent.
Bad image
If a woman wants to raise a son's true manhood, she needs to stop negatively speaking about other men and even less about her father. In the worst case, the baby will develop a self-defense response. And in the future the boy will completely deny family values.
Raising a daughter
Despite the fact that the daughter always loves her mother more and she does not need to bring up the man's character traits, this does not mean that it is much easier to raise a daughter. The opinion about the opposite field of the girl is formed on the basis of the relationship with the father. Even the choice of the future elect will be based on the image of the father. Therefore, to set up a girl against the pope or forbid them to see each other is a bad opinion.
Lonely woman with baby
A woman's life after a divorce, which is left alone with a child in her arms, can proceed in different ways. A woman can concentrate all her energies on raising a child and live only for him. But such excessive attention can have its "pitfalls", because a child can grow up selfish and spoiled. Therefore, it is necessary for a woman, after a marriage break, not to become isolated from the psychological and professional point of view and to seek an ideal replacement for herself and her child. Just lose your femininity, trying to achieve success in your career and try on the masculine qualities is not worth it, because even a divorced woman with a child can find happiness!