For many years, psychologists around the world have faced similar problems many times, and some have made signs, considering that you can do something to save your family life.
First sign
Too light tone in communication. It is unlikely that anyone will like it when his questions are answered abruptly and incorrectly, and sometimes with a mockery. Any ideas perceive bridges and is called "kindergarten". No one likes when his loved one taunts his failures at work or in life. Such an attitude nebudet tolerate no one, and the marriage ends, filled with the above-described divorce. Do not go down to humiliation and ridicule of the second half. It is much more pleasant to live in support and understanding, and if the second half has a black band in life, then it is worthwhile helping at least with a good attitude.
The second sign
If your family often has accusations, excessive unreasonable criticism and there is a share of contempt, then this problem must be solved immediately. By "grandfathering" method - sex does not always help to solve this problem. Basically, when a couple realizes their mistake, they turn to specialists for help, and if the parties still want to keep the family, they compromise and radically change the style of communication and attitude towards each other. Moreover, we are all people and we have the right to make mistakes and no one can take away this right. Do not blame your loved ones, and if you really noticed a puncture, it's best to settle it tactfully and civilized.
Third sign
Expression of emotions. When the spouses have no idea what a loved one feels, this is bad, but when the couple express too many negative emotions - it's even worse. In order to maintain a balance in the expression of emotions, one must know their partner. For example, if he has problems, do not aggravate the situation, pouring even more dirt on his already loaded head. Remember that the Brak is voluntary, and no one should do anything to anyone, because everything is done at will and initiative. This is the only way to maintain a good relationship. If your relationship is mired in a negative, you will surprise everyone by showing kindness, and settling the conflicts yourself, and the rest, following your example, will do that and everyone will be happy.
Give more positivity!
Fourth sign
Non-verbal communication. Always watch the expression on your spouse's face. After disagreements, there is an iszor, in any case there is a trace, and it can be seen in the expression of your beloved person. Try to get rid of the consequences of quarrels with embraces, kisses, various pleasant trifles. Men are happy when on lunchtime at work sms comes to him: "I love you" or "I miss", etc. In fact, the body language helped many newlyweds save the marriage. Use this tool.
The fifth sign
Memory. By nature, people are very vindictive. But everyone looks at it from their own side. For example, one considers it normal to reproach a loved one with mistakes that he made in his youth, or "poke" his nose in the direction of his parents. Such is the nature of man, but you will show respect if you do not do it! Remember, everything that was - already in the past and nothing to change. Moreover, if you dig deeper, then each of us has, so to speak, juicy details of personal life and, before you reproach someone with the past, think about it, and remember your past.