In the life of every person there are many ages. We learn, fall in love, build relationships and support our "clan" - intra-family relationships of several generations. But the classic model of life "youth - adolescence - in people - family - old age" is suitable only for men. The woman has her own age psychology, and each stage in her complete life cycle, the development process depends on many factors.
The development of women and the passage of various life stages, cycles, is only in strict accordance with her life priorities, and her age psychology is a reflection of her hopes and aspirations. A woman has several such "special" periods, which have clearly defined boundaries.
There is a seven-year, rather simplified full life cycle of a person's development, telling a lot about the age of a woman. His "authorship" is attributed to different cultures. But one thing is the same - that the "magic" number seven reflects the age boundaries very well.
- Up to 7 years old is a child ,
- Up to 14 - a girl ,
- Up to 21 - a girl ,
- Up to 28 - a warrior ,
- Up to 35 - mother ,
- Up to 42 - wife ,
- Up to 49 - a woman ,
- To 56 and beyond is wisdom itself .
Further, some say that the cycles are repeated, while others say that by the age of 56 a woman has either learned inmost wisdom and can be the "oldest woman of the genus", by the voice of Nature herself or not. And now let's talk about the age psychology of women and the full life cycle of human development a little more.
Only from the age of seven , the "sexless" little man becomes a girl, feels his belonging to the female sex, although the first thoughts about the obvious signs of his own "otherness" are laid in 5 years. And with 14 - a sense of their own spiritual impulses, it's time to fall in love and the emergence of strong feelings.
From the age of 21 starts a new time. A girl who before had her first feelings and studied the inner world becomes interested in an external world. Diane-hunter, warrior, trying her hand in the real world and interested in literally everything - this is a girl under 28 years old. The first successes inspire, the first wounds make you think.
And now, to 28 years old the girl comes with a solid baggage of knowledge. And even if she married in 20, then, by the standards of age psychology, only by age 28 the girl comes to the age of mature and fertile motherhood - this is the life cycle of a person. And in this there is something absolutely right - only having gained own knowledge, it is possible to convey something essential to the next generation.
Up to 35 a woman enjoys the happiness of motherhood and the construction of a "hearth", coziness, way of life and her own "cell in society". But coming closer to the next milestone, she discovers that there are also other interests. And all the previous ones - family, home, stable and very comfortable work - were just a protective shell, behind which it was possible to hide from adversity and engage in the most natural for a woman - the birth and upbringing of children.
It is at the age of 35-42 that women renew their social status, change their place of work and even their families - so great at this moment is the feeling that everything needs to be done anew. And preferably - the best way, because you will not have time to change ...
By 42-47 years, a woman either calms down in her own loneliness and the status of "divorce," or is already confident in her family. It is to this age that the concept "woman" is most applicable - sure of who she is, what she is capable of and in many other things. Good becomes more and more, mental strengths and opportunities - too, but physical extinction is not yet felt too keenly. By the end of this period, the woman finally asks herself a sacramental question "who am I," "why am I here," "from where" ...
And now these are not the superficial questions that teenagers or warrior-maidens who conquer the world ask themselves - this is a true journey into oneself. She finally looks into the abyss that opens before everyone. This dialogue with eternity promises either a return to the immediate interests and living the lives of children, grandchildren, great-grandchildren ... or true wisdom, which finally comes to 56 years .
Any age psychology, the full life cycle of a person's development from the beginning to spiritual infinity, is, of course, very conditional. They have a place and differences in 2-3 years, and the most real deviations - when this or that person as if "stuck" at one stage or suddenly returns to the previous loop of the cycle. But any "discrepancy" even of the conditional life cycle still looks very unnatural.
The young "fatal beauty" in 45-50 years, shooting eyes as a young, knowledgeable world girl, or not aged out of date, a young mother dropping her hands, giving advice, not having enough wisdom - are equally complex in understanding. And let subconsciously, not understanding the cause, but others are perplexed - how can it? Therefore do not rush yourself, grow as you want the soul. After all, no one will live your life for you - neither relatives nor friends, nor "society".