There are symbols that carry important information and are used in different languages. Signs that resemble people and reflect their characters. Codes that affect the quality of being. The name is punctuation. What is the connection of human characters and punctuation marks? Read - and find out what "sign" people are. All their secrets are here.
Two write, three in the mind.
The biggest difficulty in communication is delivered by people-quotes. You never know whether their speech is direct or everything should be understood in a figurative sense. It is difficult to determine what is on their mind and whether they should be trusted. They are not easy for themselves, because they are waiting for a dirty trick from people and the world, the mistrust of these people is automatic, innate, like a reflex. They also doubt in themselves, not only in others. What they fear, they receive. They do not really want to be friends with them, they are "substituted" and betrayed, they are shunned and do not like. Make life easier for yourself
and the other can only be one way: maximize the development of sincerity and abandon the assessments. Use quotes only for direct speech, forgetting about their ability to change the meaning of the word to the opposite. The technique "Is this true?". It is simple, it is just necessary to raise this question to each of its statements.
- I like this article.
- Is it so?
- Well, actually, it's boring and new is not enough ...
- The article is rather boring, but something in it still interested.
The last phrase is a direct speech that can be voiced, the previous three - internal dialogue.
We will open the brackets.
The problems of sincerity and openness arise not only in quotes. People-brackets, closed and remote, restrained and terse, are also often perceived with apprehension and suspicion. It is not very comfortable to communicate with an iceberg, most of which is hidden under water. At the same time, these people attract their mystery and inconspicuity, their erudition inspires respect. To reveal such parentheses is like opening your arms: you get a completely new and very pleasant level of communication. Use in conversations with them a retrain - and get a lot of useful additional information. Re-phrases are specifying suggestions like:
- If I understood you correctly...
- you mean that ...
- if you decipher what you said, it turns out ...
- if I correctly caught your thought, it turns out ...
It turns out concretization, and it is exactly what we need.
Restore the erased.
Dash - something so self-evident that it is not worth talking about, a dash, and nothing more. I'm the boss, you're a fool, he's clever, and you're a half-wit. A girl from the cover of a glossy magazine is just super, and I am a reflection in a crooked mirror. What is there to discuss? Everything is clear, in one word - a dash. But! What goes without saying for a person-dash, for his interlocutor can have a very different meaning. There is a boss, but the mental abilities are not determined by the chair he occupies. The girl from the cover is perfect and uninteresting, but my non-standard appearance is something to catch. Smart people sometimes can not give anything new to the world, and the half-wit Einstein, who did not master the final exams, created the theory of relativity.
Humans dash in a conflict situation prefer to keep silent, so that the partner himself guessed where he had offended the silent and why he went "into the dead defenses." From any clarification of relations man-dare refuses. If I'm silent, it's your fault, what's not clear? But this is the way to nowhere, because sooner or later the partner will get tired of guessing on the coffee grounds, looking for his mistakes, and he will say: "Are you silent? And be silent to your health. I have something to do with? ".
Very important words are hidden under the dash: "is", "it", "means." Replacing them with a simple dash, we remove the vibration, erase the significance and question the very existence. Remove the dash - it is very unsafe.
Pronounce the word "is", say and discuss grievances, find out the relationship in the most literal sense of the word. I strongly advise you to use the I-statements in this case: you do not spend very little time with me, and I am exasperated by the fact that we spend little time together. You did not forget about the anniversary of our wedding, but I did not remind you of that. You do not carp at me, but I react morbidly to the snibbags over trifles. I-statements help to bring life to the level of dots, and this ...
A novel with a sequel.
If you were lucky enough to be born as an ellipsis, you are significant and democratic, open to the new and dynamic, mysterious and non-standard. If from birth these qualities are not enough, you can and should develop, because the ellipsis - this is life with its understatement and surprises, multivariance and unpredictability. This is an opportunity to come up with your own version of the development of the event, gain power over circumstances. Any sign can be an ellipsis, there would be a desire, confirmed by action.
At one time, when the glory of the prophet Moses reached neighboring countries, one of the kings sent an artist to Israel to draw and bring him a portrait of a great man. The tsar had a fortuneteller who, by the portrait, could reveal the character of a man, and thus it was possible to find out whether the glory of Moses corresponds to his real talents. The portrait was made, delivered, and the soothsayer stated that there is no such blemish as a person depicted on the canvas would not be capable of. The angry king decided to execute either an inept artist, or a visionary deceiver. But first he had to meet Moses himself to see if the image was like a real prophet. If it seems like the soothsayer will die, if not, death awaits the artist. And here the long-awaited meeting took place, Moses comes to meet the king, like two drops of water similar to his image ... The king calls the executioner.
"Why do you need an executioner?" the prophet asks.
- To execute a soothsayer who said that you, a great man, are capable of the lowest acts.
"Do not hurry with the execution, I'm really capable of the lowest acts, but my greatness lies in the fact that I managed to overcome this in myself."
Perhaps in overcoming and converting a minus to a plus is the essence of the great transition, to which all the punctuation marks hint at us?