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For some, the ideal family is when the husband works, ayena sits at home and brings up children. Many men believe that they are the breadwinners and the breadwinners. Therefore, the most important thing is to provide for your family and relatives, and you do not have to worry about the rest. After all, this is the care of the wife. It must solve all domestic issues. And "good husbands" do not even take part in the life of their children.
How correct this approach on the part of men is, is difficult to judge. Sometimes women like this situation, and they live happily ever after in marriage. Sometimes they make connections on the side, because the wife does not feel the attention and support of her husband. And all because he rarely comes home to become an essential support.
But if a woman has found herself in the profession, she is engaged in a beloved from the heart and is also rarely at home, then such a version of the "good husband" is quite satisfactory. After all, she does not have to listen at home that she gives too much time to work, and not to the family. In addition, being constantly in the people, she receives compliments from the side, which she is quite lacking. How long such a marriage will last depends only on the spouses and their desire to live like this.
This type of "good husbands" is typical of the East. There, the man should work and provide for the family, and the woman should stand and keep the home. There is such a mentality and therefore there are no differences in the family. A man brings money, and a woman is a mother, a cleaning woman, a cook and a mistress for the only lover.
"Mommy"
In families, there is often a type of relationship, when the wife makes money, and the husband takes care of household chores. Such a "good husband" and cook delicious food, and in the apartment will be removed, and with the child will walk. It is much more difficult for him to give up such a life than to get bold and get a job for a man. It sounds strange, but it is.
In a family with this type of relationship, everything is fine, if the income of the wife allows you to live comfortably and do not need anything. But if the income is small, and it is necessary constantly to save something, then in time, conflicts and reproaches will inevitably arise in the direction of the husband. And then, as if comfortably "good husband" was not in the role of mother, he would have to give up such a life and find a job or to suffer constant reproaches in his address.
But even the ladies do not always understand how good it is when the husband is engaged in all the household chores. After all, such "good husbands" can show how much in life everything interesting, if you forget the need to prepare meals, wash dirty dishes and wash. All this takes a lot of free time, and no longer female, but male. And it is thanks to this that ladies can pay more attention to themselves: engage in appearance, personal affairs, carefree walking with children.
And you do not need to immediately consider such men as rags and insane. Thanks to them, women can realize themselves in life, achieve recognition and success. This is for many a dream, but some have the opportunity to implement it. So, dear women, do not refuse this if the financial situation allows you.
Loafer
There is a type of men who can work at a loss-making enterprise and consider themselves a "good husband" at the same time. After all, they bring a certain amount of their wages home. But they are not too excited by the fact that this salary is enough only to pay for utilities. They sincerely believe that they work hard, hard and hard all day long. And as a reward it is possible at the end of the day to drink a couple of glasses of beer with friends. Wife's requests for help in the home are ignored. Often there are excuses, like "I'm tired. I've already fulfilled my daily work norm and so on. "
Most often such "good husbands" live their past, past merits. The received diploma in the vocational school will be considered the second higher education, and the caught carp on fishing - a meter catfish. In fact, it turns out that as such and past merits there are no any, but still they are actively mentioned in any spouse dispute.
Such marriages, as a rule, do not last long, and even then, only the enthusiasm of the wife. If a woman has enough strength and nerves to endure such a "good man", then the marriage can be preserved for a long time. If it bothers her all the time, then in the eyes of such a man she will look like an unfaithful woman who has not appreciated the trust of a caring and hardworking husband.
A good husband or a disappeared look?
All people are different, therefore it is impossible for all men to consider their ... Unfortunately, in our time, men are accustomed to relieve themselves of responsibility for the maintenance of the family, caring for the beloved and so on. They believe that women should do this. With this, there's nothing to be done.
Fortunately, there is another type of men who believe that providing a family is their direct duty. At the same time, they manage to devote time to the time, and help the children to take the children from school. There are such "good people" who find time for everything. And it should be noted that such men will not scream at all about their merits. He will know that there are many shortcomings in him, but with his "courageous" actions he will try to root them out.
"Good husbands" is. They like family life, and they enjoy the pleasant family pleasures, the cares of their second half, the need to help restore order in a disorderly life. Takimomazchiny will work a lot from morning till late evening. All the problems they will solve with a smile and will never raise the voice on your loved ones.
And I want to note that few women will boast of such a man. After all, it is worth its weight in gold. She will cherish and care for them, and most importantly to love. The same "good husband" will give in return. Thanks to the relationships, the family is kept for many years, and sometimes for life. So, dear girls, I wish you to meet only a good man who will become an exemplary and loving husband.