Many people know that a baby should be hugged, caressed and cherished. Yes, there is not even knowledge of the case, most want almost to constantly show their love for this little sniffing miracle. Mom intuitively seeks to spend as much time as possible with her baby, be gentle and affectionate with him. And she does it without hesitation, that touching the baby is not only pleasant, but also brings tangible benefits to his intelligence and health.
Baby was born!
What does mom do? The toddler is laid out on his mother's belly, they are allowed to kiss my mother's breast. Caring for the baby with the help of touches allows you to feel your love and affection. Mom touches and looks into the eyes of her baby, trying to properly see it, hugs and strokes. In the language of science, this is called bonding. In the mind of the baby there is a process of capturing the image of the mother, the baby remembers how it looks, how it smells, and most importantly - understands that after the born stress of birth no one left him, next to Mummy, and everything will be fine with him. What happens to the mother? A strong emotional connection is established between it and the child. The woman's brain receives a signal to "start" breastfeeding, the maternal instinct begins to work. And another important point: the child is born to the light sterile, when the mother touches it for the first time, she gives him and its beneficial bacteria.
What does mom do? He bathes, changes clothes, feeds, does gymnastics with crumbs, lulls, sings lullaby ... Every day Mother performs the same actions for caring for the baby. In the language of science, the first three months of a child's life after birth are called the fourth trimester, and the entire period before the first birthday of the child is the period when the baby needs maximum attention and love. A human cub is born into the world absolutely unadapted and without a mother simply will not survive. And since the hearing and vision of the baby are still underdeveloped, the most accurate and reliable body for obtaining information is ... skin. The child sensitively reacts to touching her body, if they are tender and caring - the baby learns: they love me, everything is fine. Rough touches, like their complete absence, alas, talk about the opposite and affect not only the psyche of the child, but also his physical condition - up to a time lag in mental development. Taking care of the baby with the help of touches gives the child the feeling of being protected.
Where are our pens ...
What does mom do? Massage. It is accompanied by gentle mother's cooing over the child, caring for the baby with the help of touches, causing him to smile. In the language of science, breastfeeding is a panacea for many ills. He helps the child to quickly learn with his body. It is very important that the so-called exercises for fine motor skills (massage of the fingers of small legs and handles) are included in the massage. When the mother massages the baby fingers, nerve cells are given signals to the part of the brain that is responsible for the development of the child's speech.
Important and necessary
When it comes to a baby baby, every little thing becomes important. For crumbs with its hypersensitivity - everything is equally important. I want the kid not to feel unpleasant emotions because of the fact that they put on him? Give preference to quality products. There can not be any compromises, it's better to save on something else, but the "first layer" - that touches the baby's skin - should be ideal: soft to the touch, letting air in, not restricting movements, which does not cause trouble because of wrinkles and seams, giving a tender skin a feeling of purity and dryness ...