How to make it so that the former guy lagged behind the girl

How often we talk about eternal love, we swear to each other in fidelity to the grave and believe in our words absolutely and unconditionally. But life is a very complicated thing. Changing characters, circumstances, goals and dreams. And one morning, waking up, suddenly comes the realization that love has passed. They say that if a person loves, he always knows how to let go. After all, a sincere feeling is when you want happiness not with yourself, but just want it. Unfortunately, everyone knows how to understand it that way. In some men, love turns into pathology, into an unhealthy mental and neurological dependence. Favorite woman becomes for them like a drug. Without it, that is without a kind of dose, they begin to break, causing aggression and inadequate actions. At such moments the question becomes urgent: how to make it so that the former guy lagged behind the girl?

Of course, at first all try to talk and explain. Often, these conversations end in scandals, accusations, and then flow into vows of eternal love. This behavior on the part of a man becomes a real psychological trauma. Hatred and pity are mixed, not allowing the woman to live peacefully.

There are absolutely clinical cases, when persecution begins, waiting at the entrance, promises to avenge everything.

It frightens and freaks out. How to act? How to make so that the former guy lagged behind the girl, whom he absolutely does not need?

If a young person constantly calls and throws messages, you can, of course, change the number, but, thereby, you cause damage to yourself. Therefore, it is worth trying to ask a friend or brother to talk to a former guy. In this case, your defender can calmly introduce himself as your young man and correctly (and, perhaps, very incorrectly) explain to the admirer that he no longer has to try to blast happiness. On many this works, the main thing is that the strong and authoritative person who knows how to speak a word speak with the former, and the threats of the abandoned "Romeo" will not be frightened.

But such a number can only pass with those guys who are really capable of threatening only in words.

By the way, there is another way to dare "not violent" ex-ones. Of course, he is quite cruel, but in such cases, all methods are good.

We need to return to him. And make him hate you. You know that it irritates you and girls in general. So show him what he does not want to see and perceive most. Here, the main thing is not to overdo it. After all, if you start overacting, he will suspect that all this is done specifically and will simply ignore your behavior. So you need to gradually kindle disgust in him, doing what is unacceptable for him. Of course, this may take some time, but if you understand that there is no other way out, you will have to sacrifice.

Quiet, annoying guys create problems, irritating no less than aggressive. But still, their plus is that they can be combated without a threat to life. Another way that in some cases works: switching attention. If you are sure that he is a good man, whose love just clouded the mind, make sure that he met another girl who can interest him. Everyone has their own ideals. And if in your circle there is a lady who best suits his needs, you can adjust their acquaintance. The main thing is that the young man does not learn that this is your handiwork. If he knows everything, even the most ideal girl will not win his heart.

Of course, in this case, too, we have to go over ethical principles, so all of the above is just a piece of advice, not a direct guide to action.

Well, what should you do if a guy starts to act aggressively and threaten? In the event that you know that threats are not groundless, you need to take action. In addition to completely ignoring the young man, it is worth asking for help from friends and family. Do not be afraid or ashamed. We are all capable of making mistakes, close people will understand and help. If a person knows that you have a defense that can make him punish in which case, he will think a hundred times before doing something.

In addition, try to always be in the company of people who can protect you, especially at a later time. I think a close friend or brother will never refuse to take you home. Do not give the former guy a single opportunity to hurt you. Even in such situations, the attraction of the pope can help. If your father can correctly lead a dialogue, and if necessary, and use force moderately, feel free to contact for help. Often one conversation with the daddy of the former girl, discourages the boys from the desire to appear within a radius of ten kilometers from her house. Also, you can talk with his parents, most or ask your own. Of course, you are an adult, but if it becomes clear that your ex-is really capable of causing you injuries and injuries, do not be afraid or ashamed to turn to the elders. When the conflict goes to a similar level and the guy begins to understand that his possible actions are threatened with legal responsibility, he will think a hundred times before coming to lie in wait for you in the entrance.

When none of the above is working and the former guy continues to harass you, threaten, roll up hysterics and try to return violently, you really should think about his psychological health. Sick people do not understand words and persuasions. Extreme measures must be applied to them. Therefore, it is not superfluous to ask for help from law enforcement agencies to write a statement and demand that you organize some kind of protection for you. In such cases, all the methods are already good, because your health, and, possibly, life is under threat.

Male love does not always bring us happiness. Sometimes it happens that from her only one problem, fear and suffering - and so you want this monster to fall behind us once and for all. It is necessary to get rid of such love. By any means. And the sooner, the better.