Beauty complex
Complexes are the main problem for all women. If you look at it in order - what do you dislike about yourself? The very first reason why a woman hates herself is a complex of beauty. Glossy magazines, beautiful girlfriends, the world of fashion - everyone wants to comply with the ideals of female figures and charisma. If you want to lose weight by obtaining a thin waist, then no one will reproach you for this. Only for yourself - why do you need to lose weight? For yourself or for other people's ideals? If uvlas shortness of breath, it is difficult for you to climb the stairs or simply uncomfortable to live too much weight, then be sure to sit down on a nadiet and go in for sports. However, if your beloved or your mother says that something has recovered, then do not shed tears. Look at your figure with your own eyes, and not with the eyes of others. Be sure to lose weight for yourself, not for someone.
Some women care for an imperfect face or small breasts, not enough long hair or big hair. Such defects can be corrected only by plastic surgery. If there was a uvass opportunity, would you lie under the surgeon's knife? Hardly. It just seems like there would be funds, then you will definitely perform a plastic surgery. Learn with this "fictitious" defect, properly hide it, and yet, undoubtedly emphasize your dignity. If you polish your dignity, so that pay attention to them, then your minor flaws and no one will notice.
Hostess complex
Many women are concerned about the hostess's complex. For example, some people think that they do not cook well, they do not clean up. I will not hide, such experiences very often in uszarozhdaet the closest person - your beloved husband. Once he once said that the dish did not work, then we begin to worry about their culinary abilities. Let's take a look at this honestly. Prepare a side dish, soup or salad all, starting with the students. Fortunately, there are culinary recipes with step by step photographs, where you can gradually learn how to cook. We do not cook complex dishes with practical help, only if on holidays. Take for yourself the rule, once a week, study at least one new recipe.
If your favorite man is well-fed in food, and also lets go of comments, like: "my mother is cooking better", "you do not know how to do anything", then you can say that "my dad is more profitable". This is a sobering way for overly powerful men who see only a few shortcomings. And, in fact, think, why, if he does not know how to make money, should you cook deliciously? Reproaches and various insults are capable of making an unhappy wife even from the most self-assured woman.
Mother's complex
The complex of the mother is the most common. It often occurs for two reasons. The first: comparing the child with other children, and the second: a small amount of time given to the child. Compare your baby with others is not worth it. Yes, I want your children to be clever and educated. But these are your children, they are brought up by you, they take the example of a match. This means that there is nothing bad in them. Of course, if other parents brag about the achievements of their children, and you, in general, have nothing to brag about, it becomes insulting. Do not make your noisy boy go to music school, like friends, and write it down on football. If your girl is quiet and modest, then why give it to dance, so she was uncomfortable with the scene? Maybe your child likes to draw alone, so think okhudozhestvennyh classes. Do not imitate friends, children are different, everyone has some talent, develop it and you will have something to brag about, since it's already so important.
Complex of lost time
Yes, you have to work to feed your child, talk with him on weekends, and on weekdays you just have time to cook something and go to bed. Your child is also sad without attention, however, you can find a way out of this situation. Get yourself a daily half hour of your child. You can call them "Half an Hour Masha", for example. Let it be hours before bed or hours immediately after workdays. All this time, play, talk, show interest. Ask opera hobbies, about the names of your favorite toys, about gifts - anything that can be of interest to the child. Teach him to follow the time, it is very easy to explain that from 21.00 to 21.30 the time of games with him, and then you have compulsory cases, which you also do for the sake of the child. Your baby will get used gradually, not become vasotvlechat during cooking or cleaning.
Career complex
Complexes at work arise because you earn little, and maybe do not know how to get on with the team. In the first case, you have to decide what you are worth. If you have a firm belief that with your experience and qualifications the salary should be three times as much, then immediately look for another vacancy. If you just do not like the salary, though justified, try to think a little about what you can do for the company. Any little things are important, from optimizing work to attracting new customers. If you are more active, you will be noticed by the management, and there may be new options for the growth of the company. Do not be afraid to implement business ideas for opening an independent business. Often, gaining experience, women open their own business, and take into account all options for development.
If your problem is the inability to get along with the team, then let the people be themselves. Stop acting because of a noisy and stupid colleague, and also stupid employees. This is not your problem, but each person has virtues. Try to find out about decorum, maybe someone is engaged in charity or just a valuable employee. The fact that you could not make friends with him does not mean at all that they are bad employees or you are an amateur. Communicate with them only on mereneobhodimosti, during lunch or on break, but as friendly as possible. Do not swear at trifles, relax.
All the complexes are based on what someone has suggested to you, which is much better. You must accept yourself as you are. If you are internally aspiring to be better, then change, do not sit still, sighing about the shortcomings. All in your hands!