And this is regrettable. After all, among the talented, great and famous, too, there are not a few women, and the spiritual world is sometimes richer and more diverse than men. We are always bright and spectacular, we can make people draw attention, we know how to conquer and surprise. So why all of our personal dignity is not fully appreciated, bringing to the fore more mundane things.
Especially brakes the development of the woman's personality in the family. When all her interests are forced to go to the background, in favor of the interests and needs of her husband and children. Therefore, everything that a woman managed to accumulate in herself until the moment of marriage, is rarely greatly multiplied during the period of family life.
And it would seem, what are we doing wrong, that we begin to slowly and confidently degrade as individuals?
What makes us to slow down our personal development, to make ourselves withdrawn, lost interest in the world, people, limited and uninteresting?
We have the answers to these questions. And so, we listen and remember.
We are loved.
The first step towards degradation as a woman's personality in the family is her desire to constantly talk only about herself. Usually conversations with the surrounding people, even with unfamiliar ones, boil down to the banal "but I", "but you know from me", "well you, yes I", and many more such "I", and everywhere in all spheres of life . Usually this leads to the fact that everyone around you has long been aware of you, and new events are not so significant compared to the amount of information you have given about the period of your entire life. Unwillingness to listen to what you have identified will soon return to you. A person by nature is selfish, and very fond of interest in his person, People simply will not want to listen to you if you are constantly fixated only on yourself, not paying the slightest attention to them as your environment. The result is a lack of full communication.
The fact that a woman acquiring a family, especially if she is a housewife, finds a new best friend, a TV, is also very influential. Monotonous series, not intellectual shows, different realities, and stories about the life of domestic and overseas business shows - replace all the delights of real life, reading books, cultural events. In the future you will be able to communicate only on topics that are closest to you - the program of telecasts, star gossip, and when, at last, Jose will understand that Maria, this is not Roberto's daughter, but simply a second cousin of his uncle who came here a year ago from despair, just look for your happiness.
Our actions.
Similarly, the development of the personality of women in the family, will be qualitatively influenced by her daily actions. For some women, the day is painted every minute, and the schedule is always the same, with editing for the day off and leave. Of course, this is not just a whim of a woman, it is in most cases circumstances that are determined by her obligations to the family, superiors, relatives and other personalities. And at the same time, many women are satisfied with this alignment, and they do not even try to change something, to introduce the possibility of some kind of spontaneity, which makes them possibly a good parent or an employee, but not an interesting and fully developed person. Sometimes in such inaction the financial situation is to blame. It can be difficult, then a woman usually saves herself in favor of the family, or vice versa, saving is just in case just to save on a special occasion. And since such a case because of permanent employment does not arise, money goes to what is needed, not what you want. So it turns out, while friends brag about trips to the resort, your most distant trip for the whole year, was to the country after the potatoes, or even less.
And yet, when did you last see those same spawning friends? And you do not have that time, then desires, but you are not even invited by your friends, knowing that you will still find a go-ahead that would not come. And after that you want to call yourself an interesting and developed personality?
Accordingly, if you do not go anywhere, then you do not have new acquaintances, interesting connections to you. Yes, and you are quite satisfied with a small circle of your friends, who, incidentally, if you have not forgotten, no longer call you.
Our opinion.
Of course, our actions mostly determine our thoughts. How we think is influenced by our habits, principles, moral principles. And if we decide not to change them, so the diversity in our lives is also not introduced. Why, something new, if there is a proven old. Do not let the outside world influence you. Give up everything that previously was not part of your world, which you yourself have created.
By the way, when was the last time you watched your appearance? Probably, your path to the beauty salon has grown not only with grass, but also with trees. But, the fact that appearance for a person does not matter and the inner world is more important is not entirely true, and you have already seen it for yourself for a long time. The person's personality manifests itself not only in his ability to communicate, abilities and knowledge, but also in the external expression of his individuality. It is clear that for the house does not need a dress from an expensive fashion designer, and a chic hairstyle, but our vision of ourselves, the ability to manifest helps in the formation of our personality.
So, dear ladies, draw conclusions for yourself. Marriage is not the end of the world, and not a reason to forget about yourself. Love yourself, bring diversity to your life, communicate and in this case, the question of you as a person in the family, will never arise. After all, that you are a bright personality, everyone will know everything.