Everyone wants happiness for young, long life together and celebrates a cheerful and beautiful wedding.
In fact, this very life together can not be so long. Sometimes a divorce happens right after the wedding. It's very sad and offensive, but it happens. You can only try to understand the reasons, but they can be very different.
It happens that the young people knew very little time.
And after the wedding comes a time of bitter truth, which means that the partners are absolutely incompatible and they are just contraindicated to be together in the same room. Character - a difficult thing, and the phrase "did not meet the characters" is not just an utterance, but the real truth.
Divorce immediately after the wedding can be due to the fact that the young couple face a domestic problem, which they are not ready to meet face to face. Then the warmth and small grievances grow into dislike and the desire is away from each other, and very quickly a divorce occurs. Very often young people face a housing problem, which they can not solve on their own. The inability to have one's own corner, as a rule, strongly depresses and very rare couples can overcome these difficulties and stay together.
In addition, an important role in relations after the wedding is played by relatives on either side. And if the parents of the wife or husband do not agree with the choice of their offspring, but still have a certain amount of vanity and authoritativeness, then they will "put the sticks in the wheel" with all their might, so that the newlyweds quarrel and fled. And what about love? - ask, probably you. Love ... it is. The main thing is not to muddle it with a simple hobby and not to succumb to the first emotional impulses, it is very very important and significant.
"When poverty comes to the house, love jumps out into the window" - these wise words, spoken for a long time, have not lost their relevance.
Often divorces after the wedding occur with the birth of a child, because this exciting and joyful event turns into sleepless nights, endless washing, ironing and it seems that this cycle will not end. Wife after childbirth is annoyed, she is nervous for any reason and husband as a result, he turns into a man who wants just a few hours to sleep. Beginning mutual resentment, reproaches and, as a consequence, divorce. This happens in the case when young people themselves have not left the childhood and have not learned to manage their emotions a little. It seems to them that love has gone and the only way out is to break up quickly.
Divorce immediately after the wedding can be as a consequence of the large age difference between spouses. Wife is young and does not understand that this imposing man, striking her imagination, has a bunch accumulated for life, habits, perhaps, children and ex-wife. It seems to her that love will survive all if only "darling" was close. Love can withstand - a young woman who wants to enjoy her life, grow creatively and spiritually, can not withstand it, while her adult flies have already had all this for a long time and do not give her moral support in all her undertakings.
As you can see the reasons for the divorce after the wedding - many and all not listed. In fact, it's not so scary. It is better to turn back at once than to suffer from unspoken feelings and desires all my life. Divorces happen and for some it's a chance to find happiness.