According to statistics, every second man after a hard working day drinks a bottle or two beers. For many, this is normal, you can drink stronger drinks one - two times in two weeks. If your husband does not want to get drunk, does not increase the dose of alcohol (for example, he started drinking one bottle in the evening, and now sometimes three can drink), does not behave aggressively, then everything is fine. You can not worry.
Everyone is aware of the dangers of excessive drinking, not relating beer to that. But very vain. Regular use of foam drink reduces potency, brain stem cells die, stomach grows, blood pressure rises, immunity decreases. Not to mention that beer alcoholism can develop.
Beer alcoholism is just as complex a disease as ordinary alcoholism. The only difference is that the time of its formation is much longer, as is the time of recovery. As a rule, "addiction to a foamy drink" for a long time remains unnoticed by neither close ones, nor by the alcoholic himself.
Further all goes under the standard scheme: to get rid of an alcoholism independently the person can not any more, but, thus stubbornly denies the dependence. "I can stop at any time. I drink exactly as much as I want. I have enough and one bottle of beer, "- say men who already develop beer alcoholism. Analyze the behavior of her husband. Is he impatient to drink it? How does he feel about the fact that you always tell him that beer is bad?
If you want to quickly wean your husband from the nightly bottle of beer, then, first, put the goal in front of you. For example, "I want my husband to walk with me in the park in the evening (he was sitting with a child, helping me around the house)." The desire of men to relax after work is understandable and justified. But, is it necessary to do this with beer? Help him to escape from day-to-day worries. Invite for a walk, arrange a massage for him, prepare a delicious dinner and talk over a beautifully laid table. Maybe the man just does not have enough comfort recently?
If your man did not drink beer before, and now suddenly he began to do it, sitting at the TV with a stony face? Analyze, does he feel like a man with a capital M? Can he get tired of your complaints and "sawing" and he does not see you that weak and tender woman, in which he fell in love? Are you caring enough with him? Are you attentive to his successes, problems? Maybe he needs support and understanding?
Contend it! For example, that he will not drink beer for a month, and see how he succeeds. If he does not remember about the every night cherished bottle of beer, then your anxieties were in vain. And if this process is given to him with difficulty - it is worth considering ...
Tell him a terrible tale. That after a couple of years of regular drinking of his favorite drink he will begin to have health problems, in particular with potency (men often very much frighten him), that he will have a "beer tummy", you will stop loving him and leave. Tell your husband that you do not like his nightly bottle of beer, you get frustrated with this.
A good beer is not cheap. You can arrange an experiment. Let the equivalent of the amount he spends on the foamy drink he gives you. After a week or a month, you can show him how much he spends on "evening relaxation."
If the evening bottle of beer does not bother you or your husband, then you can leave the situation alone, but keep it under control. If there is beer alcoholism, inadequate behavior, then it's time to go to specialized clinics for help.