Feminine - darkness
Men are logic, and women are sensory. All that they try to put in a logical chain, we perceive at the level of feelings and emotions. That is why misunderstanding arises. No matter how the guy tried to substitute under some laws and rules female "I do not know why, but I feel", he does not get it. And very often men really try to understand why a woman reacts in this way, even trying to adjust to her behavior. But we, beautiful ladies, each time behave differently. It depends on the mood, our state of mind and even the time of the year. At the same time, we can react quite differently. And far from always girls think it necessary to explain their behavior to the guys. Therefore, often a man does not understand a woman, but tries to work out the right behavior for different situations. And the more he is with the girl next to him, the more often the young man "gets into the block". And then the lady says that he has learned to understand it. Although, in fact, he simply learned to prevent scandals through trial and error.
Sentiments
Women's sentimentality man will never understand. Therefore, you can not even hope that he will shed tears with you, for the hundredth time reviewing the Titanic. Yes, the guys are also not stone, and they are also clinging to some things. But they will never understand women who can cry over every little thing. It does not need to be surprised and angry. The fact is that men have always been educated differently. From childhood they are told not to shed tears in trifles, to be strong and courageous. Naturally, thanks to this upbringing, every guy stops being sentimental. In addition, young people do not have a special habit of translating into themselves. That is, if he is watching a film, he simply follows the crowd, and does not seek out common features between himself and the protagonist, other characters and his surroundings. Because of this, looking at how his beloved is literally poured with burning tears at the cinema, a man will never understand her. He can comfort that the hysterics stop and the girl does not declare him cold and heartless, but it's hardly possible to understand. Therefore, if you calculate that your guy really understands your sentimental tears and wants to cry over films and books, most likely you are mistaken. It is simply not possible for real men to understand this because of their nature. But they can play up artifacts, so as not to offend.
Women's Care
Another thing that men do not understand (if they are certainly men, and not loving mother's mama's sons) is women's care. We constantly try to take care of everyone. Do not forget to fix the hat, tie a scarf, a hundred times to remind you that you need to put on a warmer toke, we will literally force-pull mittens and so on. Guys do not understand this ever. They look at us and restrain themselves from their last efforts to start a scandal. The fact is that a man allows himself to be cared for only by those who are weaker. Often, these are children. Otherwise the guy will tell his nephew that he will dress warmly and if he does not listen, he will not repeat, because he believes that everyone must learn from their mistakes. Therefore, he clearly does not know why we are so shaken up by adults and formed personalities. By the way, a man can not easily understand custody, he can even be offended, because, according to his logic, if a woman is taking care of a man, then she considers him weak and not independent. And this is a blow to man's dignity. Therefore, women would have less to show custody of men (even if we see that it will not be superfluous), because the guy will never understand this and will simply be offended.
Womenswear
This is for men is such an irresolvable mystery that they do not even try to cope with it. Guys never understand hints. Kakuzhe said above, they are logic, and women's hints can hardly be called logical. In addition, for guys at all it is not clear why a woman taps, if you can say straight. And then you can not explain in any way that we want a man like to understand everything himself and made a pleasant one without instructions. After all, if you use rational logic, the hint is still an indication. So what is the meaning of hinting, if you can say everything straightforward? If the guy wants something, he talks about it. If he considers it necessary to remain silent, he is silent. A man will never try to push a woman to the right decision with the help of the beasts. Guys are always more rational than girls, so they see absolutely no point in simply wasting time and inventing ways to convey their desire to their half without telling them about direct text. Therefore, if you think that a man will learn to understand your hints - do not talk. He has a completely different structure of thinking, so if he does not do something, then hints here are unlikely to help. Sometimes guys just intuitively guess what exactly we want from them, but it's more luck than skill. Women's hints are never given to them.
An understanding that we do not notice
But in fact, not so men do not understand how namkazhetsya. Very often they can understand us, but they will not share the contention and adjust to it. And yet, understanding women, guys behave the way they think is right and they do not know that we even can not notice their understanding. For example, a silent friend (brother) stayed with you on the eve of Birthday. He knows that you do not like being at this time yourself and decides to keep you company, so that you will not be sad. But at the same time he is silent. Having mumbled something in the style: "With a holiday", the guy simply silently sits beside. In this case, the woman begins to feel and assume that he does not understand her feelings at all. And he just understands everything. He understands that she does not want to be alone - and he stayed with her, although it is not necessary, but he stayed for her. He is near - and this shows his attitude better than any words and wishes, as he entered into her situation, although for him himself in such a situation there is absolutely nothing wrong. And if a girl suddenly starts to get angry and offended, this is where the guy becomes unclear why she does it. After all, he did the same as she would be better, begging and hinting, but she again is unhappy. Therefore, if we discard our sentimentality, hints and custody, men still understand women, although they do not divide their point of view. But only women do not want to see and understand that guys really try to do things so that we feel good. Therefore, women need to realize that men in many ways try to understand us, but we do not have the right to demand from them that they share the same opinion.