What gap is usually considered a big age difference between partners? Most likely, the big difference in age is somewhere around 15, 25, 35, 45 years old, the difference between the dates of birth of partners. Short terms - 3, 5, 7, 10, 14 years should be considered an ideal age difference between a man and a woman in a relationship, for love and the creation of family relationships.
And yet, any facets here are conditional, and one can not assume by guessing whether the difference in partners' age plays a role in the relationship. Here we must take into account not only the calendar, but also the psychological age of these partners.
Sometimes it happens that a young guy 18-19 years old will shut up for a belt of maturity of thinking, views, life experience, business acumen and caring for his beloved adult 35 or even 55-year-old, seemingly mature, but selfish and self-centered muzhchinku who , except for his ambitions, does not want to see anything and hear around him.
And sometimes it happens that a young girl, surprisingly for herself, is in the hands of an experienced Lovelace, and at the same time loses not only her virginity, but also a part of her mind, without any rest she submits herself to her "master" and dances before him on her hind legs like a dog .
Absolutely all people are unique and do not resemble each other, therefore it is impossible to say exactly whether the difference in ages will play a decisive role in relations for this particular pair of a man-woman.
One can only say for sure that many people are mistaken that "60-year-old men have no sex". Believe that some nimble old men are able to have sex much more often and for longer than other thugs.
Yes, and flabbiness of the body, and the notorious wrinkles, in sex - not a hindrance. You get used to such shortcomings of a body and a person quickly. And even if at first they are a little conspicuous, then you generally do not notice them at all. In fact, the body of a woman or a man at the age of 50 is not very different from the 25-year-old, especially if the person is watching himself. And all the ladies' lovers usually follow this closely.
Regarding the psychology of relationships, if a man is older than a woman, and older is much, then she is special. If he is older not only by age, but also by the mind of his young partner, if he has a strong character, then he plays as a role of father or teacher in relation to his beloved.
If she is a young, beautiful and sexy girl, and he is an old man, but puzzled in sex, then the relationship between them is possible, but only they will give sadism on his part and masochism - with her.
Men of age are excellent liars. They are such that you can only be surprised. To one of his partners he just said how to see does not want subject N, and the same subject H in 5 seconds makes a moral "anus leasing" on the cell phone. And, if you ask him - "Are you free today?", 7 different women will get 7 different answers. Unfortunately, most men who are much older than women rarely have honest intentions and decent thoughts.
Only those women who have already been in such a situation know how you are oppressed by your own inferiority due to the fact that you are not married and your chosen one does not even think of marrying you. And you torment yourself with the question - "And if I'm destined to get married at all? And do women like me marry, or can I be only a mistress all my life? "
And painful views on future prospects? What will happen in six months, a year, two, five years from now? To be the eternal mistress? Without prospects, without children, without own life?
If you look at the situation when a woman is older than a man, then in this case, as a rule, special issues do not arise. The main thing that a woman could see in her chosen one a good friend, and a reliable support.
The main problem in a relationship, when a woman is older than a man, is that if she is already 45, 55, 60 years old, she already, apparently, will not be able to have her child and her chosen one will not be able to experience the happiness of paternity. However, as shows the practice of modern show business, and not only show business, most young people often willingly change sleepless nights with the vagaries and cries of newborns to popularity and fame, but only if they sit in a golden cage.
Thus, summing up, we see that, yes, a big age difference, as a rule, gives rise to unequal love relations or unequal marriage, in which one of the partners or both partners suffer from a large number of social, mental, physiological, biological, material and other prejudices and limitations. In any case, love is a game of Russian roulette. However, if a woman is much older than her man, or a man is much older than her chosen one, then the risk of making that fatal shot that solves all the problems that have arisen in connection with this, tenfold increases this is the law of nature, and we can not argue with him. Although in fact there are exceptions to any rule.