Lovely girl, do you like guys virgins? If yes, then this article is for you. It turns out that the guys are different virgins. At first you, of course, will not believe that he is a virgin. Then you will be sincerely surprised. Well, when there is no doubt left, it will be necessary to decide whether you need a relationship with such a man. What to expect from them and what to do with it?
First, consider the main types of young virgins. They really like many girls. We note at once that the popular opinion about the debauchery of the current youth is not entirely true. For imaginary sophistication in matters of sex often conceals the most real innocence.
Pseudo-macho.
Already at the acquaintance you will learn about all his previous "victories". So, but his opinion, real men behave like a hamovato and rude. Demonstrate their disdainful attitude to the female sex, he will be in any more or less suitable situation. It is possible that a portion of bile will fall and you - in the presence of a small audience in the company of his or your friends. But it's worth the pseudo-macho to be with you alone, the "brave guy" gut will turn into an embarrassed teenager. The surest way to relieve his tension is to truly admire him, his "exploits" and the popularity of women. Emphasize your - and your surroundings - on its undoubted merits and advantages over other men. Help him to believe in himself, and you will not find a passionate and ready for you partner even among the hardened fighters of the love front.
Possible complications: Feeling like a superman, pseudo-macho may want to confirm his steepness from other partners. His protest against your experience or the desire to dominate, too, can not play a better role.
Knight of a sad image.
Adorable glances, reading poems, sighs on the bench, walks by the moon - in front of you a classic guy is a virgin. He blushes and becomes embarrassed even before touch, even during a usual conversation on an abstract topic. If such young men marry similar romantic ladies as two drops of water, good families are obtained, which they say: "From school together". In a relationship with a man who does not hide his feelings, the best policy is sincerity and tact. If you openly and calmly admit that you know the reason for his shyness and do not see anything terrible in it, he will answer you with tenderness and gratitude.
Possible complications: his passive role will please him so much that in the future you will always have to take the initiative. If you are attuned to a serious relationship, encourage any, even minimal, activity of a partner in sex.
Now let's describe the main types of adult male virgins. You thought that he had been married for a long time or even already divorced - by age, it was laid. But it turned out that this is somewhat wrong. And it happens.
Physicist or lyricist.
The last ten years, or even twenty, he was very busy. He wrote a dissertation, tried to find a deposit of radiant pyrite or confidently aspired to the title of the deserved conductor of the Perm region. In general, he was not up to private life. Filled with books and folders a dusty table and non-integral socks are special signs of this type of virgin. He is an interesting companion, and you will never be bored with him. Of course, the prospect of becoming a friend of the life of an intellectual and a creator, especially if he has reached a certain level in his professional field, is very tempting. But what about sex? A man who does without a society of women long enough is likely to be happy with the appearance of a beautiful creature in his bachelor bed. The main thing is to share his spiritual interests, the rest is a matter of technique, which you, unlike him, are not firsthand.
Possible complications: the system of vital priorities has long been formed. It is foolish to hope that with the advent of your life, the work of his whole life will take a back seat. Either way, you will have to constantly lower the lyric physicist from the scientific "heavens" to the sinful (in the strictest sense of the word) land. Understand, are you ready for this.
Mom's a treasure.
The son of a powerful mother and her own pride. None of the women appearing on his horizon, according to the parent, was worthy of making up the happiness of her treasure. At the same time, such a man can be quite successful, educated and provided. And cute, which is the most insulting. This is one of the most difficult cases. But everything is possible, if you manage to seduce such a virgin before meeting his mother. He has a subordinate type of personality, and the object of dependence can vary depending on the circumstances.
Possible complications: in this case they are guaranteed. You can not take the place of the mother in his life, so do not waste your time and energy. Constant confrontation with it can be too noticeable a minus. But if you can earn her respect, you will become the unchanged queen of the heart of such a man. And you will never have rivals.
The most famous virgins.
It is believed that there is a connection between talent and purity. Many great ones remained innocent all their lives, and some had an acquaintance with sex in adulthood. The trouble with Lewis Carroll was that Alice grew up in her life. John Raskin remained a virgin even in marriage. Hans Christian Andersen wrote a fairy tale about love, which he did not have. Nikolai Gogol considered sex a sin. With Arthur Schopenhauer, "this" happened at the age of 70. And finally, Sigmund Freud, whose name is firmly associated with sex among all mankind, avoided women until the age of 30.
Causes of virginity.
Important as physical and psychological readiness for the beginning of sexual life. Her postponement to 22-30 years speaks about problems in communication with the opposite sex. Often, low self-esteem in virgins is revealed. This medal has two sides: a man can be more sensitive to a woman, but sometimes this is a temporary phenomenon. After the first pleasures, the search for new sensations often begins. Therefore, if the relationship with the virgin is based only on the element of novelty, they will not be durable. Underestimated self-esteem in a man fraught with jealousy, depressive states. If the novel with a virgin has real feelings and both partners are psychologically mature, such a beginning can be very good. Therefore, if the girls you like with the guys virgins build relationships, be more patient with them and a little condescending.