Newly poped dads and mothers, even the most well-prepared ones, after the appearance of crumbs, are asked a lot of questions. Can we be good parents? Will we learn to properly care? Whether we shall consult with education? Will we be able to protect ourselves from diseases and dangers? Experience will come gradually. Day after day you will learn the subtleties of bathing and changing clothes, mastering massage and gymnastics, learning lullabies and rhymes, practicing in crawling and walking ... And you will understand in the children's products presented in the stores, and among a large number will find something that will suit your baby. And relying only on their knowledge, observations. After all, your baby is unique, unlike others! So, he needs only an individual approach.
First Lessons
Back in the hospital you, Mom, noticed how sensitive the baby is to touching, how important it is for your presence. When the baby hears his mother's voice, breathing, palpitation, he calms down, calms down, listens. Similarly, he studies his feelings during dressing. Worried when you take off his panties, crying, while turning from side to side. And as soon as you begin to apply a cream or oil, relaxes and enjoys gentle and gentle touches. Children's skin is the main conductor of information about the world around for parents. When it is dry, comfortable, warm, little understands: everything is all right, the world is supportive and safe. But the discomfort (wet sliders, hypothermia or overheating, uncomfortable bed, experiences and nervousness of the mother) signals a danger. A crumb of sleep may break, an appetite may disappear. Neonatologists say: anxious babies are worse in gaining weight ... That is why it is so important from the first day to provide the baby with favorable conditions, and this is very important for parents. Put on it a quality diaper that gives a feeling of dryness and cleanliness, pleasant to the touch clothes.
Earlier than a baby thought
The child is growing. From a tiny helpless creature gradually turns into an independent person. He is already able to communicate his needs, to call his mother. And you, thanks to a subtle connection with your baby, you feel what he needs, clearly recognize the sounds that he makes. Dissatisfiedly scoffs? So, he wants to go in a little way. Restlessly he turns his head, sniffs and smacks? Do not mind refresh yourself. You are in a hurry to help him. So, anticipating his loud messages about the desire to change a diaper, eat or get on the handles, you embrace him: I understand you, everything is in order. Such a relationship between mother and child pediatricians consider the most favorable for the harmonious development of the child's brain, its psycho-emotional sphere.
Catch me!
Karapuz makes giant leaps in development and pleases good parents, more important than good teachers. Today he is only trying to reach for the toy and turn over from the back to his tummy, and tomorrow is already on all fours. Do not have time to look back, how to sit, and then crawl! Ability to move reveals before the baby unprecedented horizons. He seeks to know the space around him. From now on, you can put him to sleep. During the wakefulness, try to make sure that nothing hinders the movements of your crumbs. It's time to change the size of diapers. Pay attention to those that absorb well, do not leak and do not interfere with activity. In such a child will feel great! Only parents should consider: from now on, the baby should be watched closely. Secure the room in which it is: put the plugs on the sockets, remove from the area of reach small items, medicines, household chemicals, put Papa under the plinth of the wire. And please, do not take your eyes off your impatience. He does not yet realize the danger posed by certain objects. Unfortunately, while your "impossible" is ineffective. Therefore, switch your attention, distract and give in hand only safe things.
And inside - the motor
The energy of the baby is more than enough. After charging, walking with his parents, dancing in the patio and throwing out toys, he is ready to indulge in indulging in a lot of laughter. It's great! But for some crumbs, such fun contributes to overexcitement. Suddenly spoils the mood, the child is naughty, dissatisfied with everyone ... What's wrong with him? It is necessary to teach the child to alternate between active and passive periods. At this stage of development, the parts of the brain responsible for switching attention are immature. The child simply can not stop in time. Do not wait for a turning point, and change your entertainment every 15-20 minutes. Have you jumped? Now you can consider books. Read it? It's time to crawl.
Step by step
Someone starts walking alone at 9-11 months. Some children learn walking after a year. However, they are all delighted with their new skills. Well, they try to learn how to run as soon as possible. As a rule, at this age there are also the first attempts to acquaint the child with a pot. Well, your beloved little one has moved to a new stage of development. So, it's time again to make purchases - quality toys, things. It is equally important to choose a diaper that is comfortable for the young and easy to use. Accustom the baby to the pot gradually: let me study a new object, use the doll to show how to sit on it. Praise if the crumb turned out to do their thing. But do not scold me if it's a nuisance.
Up to a year and a half, the children are unable to control the process of urination and defecation without the help of their parents. They also can not always recognize the urge to go to the toilet. Especially when something is enthusiastically busy. Plant on the pot after a dream, walk, in 15-20 minutes from the time you take the liquid. Did the kid ask? Umnichka! Help him, and if he wants to do everything himself - let him. Thanks to convenient clasps the child without your participation can remove the diaper and sit on the pot. Nothing came of it? No problem! The main thing is that the crumb shows interest and learned the sequence of actions. The rest is a matter of time.