The usual situation, you really like each other, start to meet and sooner or later, which should have happened, one evening he took you home and, standing at the entrance, your lips closed together under the "kiss". And here it is - your first, such a welcome innocent kiss, after which the head goes around, and emotions overflow. And everything would be fine, there is only one problem - childish shame, through which everyone passed. Do you begin to hide your eyes, the thoughts in your head start slowly? but confidently get confused and the question itself ripens: "How to behave at the moment?" Let's try together to decide how to properly behave with a guy after the first kiss?
Many girls because they start to get nervous really can not even understand "but was this a kiss." Very often, this is due to fear of the process itself and its consequences. The very fear of the first kiss can be explained by comparing it with fear of something to change, to learn something new, unknown before. But the state after the kiss is comparable to the subconscious feeling that you did something wrong, something unusual to you, to some extent even shameful, wrong. Fear of the fact that your partner will sue you. This, of course, is a normal fear of almost all of this being feared. And it is because of this in the head begin to randomly circulate different thoughts, causing obvious shame and fear on the face.
First of all, stop being nervous, after all, you did not do anything criminal, it's all a natural process that should have happened, for it's so nice for our mother nature (let's say thank you to her for this unforgettable moment). Once you pull yourself together and thrust your nerves far away, you will immediately begin to be more rational and clearer to think. You are immediately much calmer and more adequate to perceive the situation. Look at it from the other side - now you have something to show off to your girlfriends, and yet you, in the end, kissed for the first time, even if he (your boyfriend), as you thought and do not know how to do it (by the way, you about it then you will remember with laughter more than once), but it happened. Therefore, "nerves out!" Will be our first principle in order to avoid "after the kiss syndrome."
Shame - well, as I said above, this is a natural process, by the way, the kiss itself is already behind, which is already shy, everything is done and everyone is alive. The worst thing you've already experienced with a guy, why panic here. Therefore, stop constantly hiding your eyes, dropping them into the ground, your guy is not there - he is in front of you. You, in the end, who are shy, or what? Stop, believe me, he is also ashamed, support him with his eyes.
They sorted it out with themselves, and now as for the guy. Immediately after the kiss try to suppress laughter. Wait until the moment when you find yourself at home there already, and you will give vent to your emotions, you have, for this, by the way, the whole night (believe you can hardly fall asleep). So laugh - leave, figure out what will be your kid, when you start laughing hysterically, I think he will not envy. Put yourself in his place. It's better to joke, discharge the situation and smile, so you together - relax your tense situation. And also, it would be nice to say some beautiful romantic words like "this is our first kiss - I'll remember it" or something else such a plan, you're a girl, and fantasy, as we know, we are brilliant in all situations. I forgot to say, but stop, finally, hurry home, he will think that you run away from him, and not from a kiss. The guys, despite the first kiss or the second one, are much more relaxed about this and because of your zeal to hide from him outside the walls of your home, he may think quite different (that you are fleeing from him, for example, that he, well, just, very badly kisses).
By the way, if, if your boyfriend already has experience how to kiss correctly and immediately after your kiss made you remark on the topic that you do it badly. Do not be shy, guys always like to show that they are better than us girls in everything. So confidently and bravely answer him something like this: "Nothing, with a teacher like you, I still have time to learn ... so everything is ahead." The guy will take it as a positive compliment and at the same time here's a joke for you. If the guy did not say anything, do not you dare tell him yourself that he does not kiss well (well, unless you liked how he does it). I hope you at least understood how to behave with the guy after the first kiss. Remember, the first kiss is the best kiss. He happens in life once and do not spoil this moment, with all kinds of prejudices and breaking his head, if you did it right, and if he did not like it, I probably do not know how to kiss. As they say, Moscow has been building for several days. You do not know how now - you will learn then.
In a word, after a kiss, behave calmly, measuredly. Never be nervous. First of all, I think it will not be superfluous to recall that there is nothing wrong with that. Forget the shame, keep doing everything you did five minutes ago, until the moment you kissed. Smile to your partner, try to talk on some other topic, thereby relaxing both of you and removing tension. Completely detach yourself from what happened, do not "hang up" at this time on this. Stop thinking about your boyfriend from the point of view that he did not like something or he condemns you in something, and even changed his opinion about you even worse. After what happened he got even more interest in you, because you became even closer to each other, and your relationship took a completely different color, going into a serious phase. So do not bother your head with stupid thoughts, but rather, before you go home, kiss it again, to make sure that everything is good and nothing dramatic has changed in your life. Relax, let everything go, as it goes on its own.