Start with yourself
In America, in the 80s, a unique experiment was conducted. A group of people was selected from 30 people, each was given the same (considerable) amount of money. Then during the year they were followed. Someone during this time opened their business and multiplied the initial capital, someone also started the business and received at least a small but quite stable income, and someone very quickly lost all wasted to live somewhere near the poverty line. Moreover, the poor people said: "If I had more money, I would have turned around!" The disorganized people gathered together, gave them the same initial amount of money. A year later, none of them got rich. That is, people behaved the same way, and just as they squandered all the capital and were left with nothing.
Now remember yourself. How often did you also dream that the Cucadeneg suddenly fell from somewhere. Then you would certainly become successful and rich, have achieved great heights and were happy. Believe me - this is not so. Success is not in the purse - it is in the head. We need to develop certain qualities in ourselves, be able to manage ourselves and from - only then will success come, and there will not be a lifetime success in tanning.
What are the qualities needed to achieve success in all endeavors? First, self-confidence. Without this it is absolutely impossible to achieve anything. Luberesheniya for life take boldly, not allowing even a drop of doubt to settle inside of yourself. Confidence works on the subconscious mind - the power of autosuggestion has not been canceled yet. Believe in luck, live by the thought that everything will turn out - you will be surprised how quickly your business will be adjusted.
The second quality is optimism. Positive thinking works wonders, the main thing - only forward, never give up. All the most successful people saw a glass of life "half-full", believed in their future and achieved what they wanted. Another persistence is an important characteristic of a person in all successful. Ability, achieving the goal, do not lower the arms, even bumping into a wall of failure, misunderstanding and ridicule. Work on what you believe in overcoming the moments of desperation - this is the essence of the word "perseverance".
All these qualities can and should be constantly developed in oneself, if they are deprived by the nature of them. And for this you can not do without the main quality - diligence. All-round successful people admitted that they had to work very hard. It was especially difficult at first. Many did not sleep for days, developing their own projects. So, if you are lazy by nature and find a lot of reasons to not become overextended, then you only need to blame yourself for not being successful.
Do not forbid yourself to become more successful
Strangely enough, but most of us do not allow ourselves to become successful and rich. A person can consciously make titanic efforts to achieve a goal, but his subconscious will resist. For example, he was taught from childhood that "it's not in the money" that wealth is not given honestly and that to achieve something, one has to "go through the corpses". Or there is a conviction inside that if you get something, then something will be lost immediately. Or simply in the family was taken to be successful and rich with distrust and dislike. Understand yourself. If deep in your subconsciousness one desire conflicts with another, if there are blocking cultural stereotypes, then success will not be achieved.
Money and success are more likely to come to the ordinary slacker, whose spiritual world is balanced than to a hard-working person, torn by internal contradictions. Before trying to attract success, clean out your subconscious mind, the attitudes and principles that stand in the way. Forget that "it's a sin to be rich," that a successful person is a "devil in the flesh" or that, on the contrary, money is "the most important thing in life." The idealization of wealth will not be good either. Then everything will depend on whether you will be able to preserve your spiritual qualities, following the path of success. But this is completely different.
Eliminate their "cockroaches"
Do you know what will happen if the cockroach crawls into the complicated stuffing of the missile control panel for strategic purposes? Yes, anything, anything! The same invisible "cockroaches" that each of us have, can spoil our lives every day. By catching such "cockroaches" that constantly prevent you from succeeding, you will soon learn to do it.
Take the paper, sit down and think about what psychological "blocks" that are sitting in your subconscious mind prevent you from overreaching success and wealth. What you will find - write out. All that you will be able to isolate in this way will automatically flow from the "unconscious" to the conscious installation. That is, you can already decide for yourself what is more important for you - to keep this or that setting or to throw it away and achieve what you want.
Choose a quiet place and a time when no one will disturb you. Place a pen next to it and a few sheets of paper. Sit back comfortably so that little things like numb nogiiali fatigue in your back you are not distracted. Progonite foreign thoughts, focus (it is concentration - the main thing in this "success-seeking" technique). Write out the question that worries you the most about your life. For example, "why do I always lack money" or "why does not success come to me". Next, the leaf is divided into three columns and we head them: "What do I feel?" (We work through emotions), "What do I think?" (We work through the thoughts) and "How do I treat this?" (We work out the worldview position).
What you will write in the columns will be your emotions, thoughts and position regarding your question at the moment. Continue to answer again and again, line stitching. Write quickly, without thinking, the answers can be repeated at the same time. Do not be distracted, go into an internal monologue - a loss of concentration will reduce all your results to nothing. What in the end? You realize the essence of your problem clearly. You will expel all of your "cockroaches" from the subconscious to the surface, gdespravitsya with them will be easier than ever. This technique is very effective, but it must be done seriously - it's science, not clownery.
All of the above is not an exact instruction, on which you will necessarily become successful and happy. Everyone chooses ways and techniques, motives and ways to achieve what he wants for himself. But if you do not have the right qualities or your head will be full of "cockroaches" - you are unlikely to achieve anything, either do not try. Think about it, sort it out yourself and act. As you know, "under a recumbent stone ..." Then you know.