We have been told for so long that a man loves his eyes, which is completely confusing. And what about our wrinkles? Tummy? Non-ideal breast shape? Relax. In fact, a man estimates the "picture as a whole", so it is not difficult to appear before him in a winning light. So, how to be in bed the best? Everything is very simple.
Of course, the first thing you need to do is leave your complexes outside the matrimonial bed. They not only prevent us from relaxing and having fun, but also spoil the mood for men: instead of admiring us, they have to grope us under the blanket in pitch darkness. "I do not understand my Marina," 35-year-old Igor confesses. - When we go to parties with friends, she acts uninhibited, dances with pleasure. Why is she embarrassed in the bedroom? "
According to many men, not an ideal figure is important (it does not exist in nature), but the ability to beautifully bend the back, take an erotic pose (the more improper, the better), pull off the socks and charmingly bite the lower sponge. Look closely at the actresses who are filmed in sex scenes. Often they are by no means thin with the parameters of 90-60-90. But you probably do not notice everything, because you do not erase the figure, but on the forms, bends and quivering breasts that tremble, showing a genuine passion. I can assure you that a man does not see any flaws when he is really hot with a woman. Now let's see how to apply this knowledge in practice.
When you are on top
The "rider" pose is loved by many women for the convenience and the ability to independently control the depth of penetration, rhythm and tilt. In this position, you face the man, and he has the opportunity to admire you, caress your breasts, stomach and thighs and look you in the eyes. Once on top, lean back a little - this will not only improve friction and will give pleasure to you and your man, but also lift your chest slightly and make it taller and more elastic. You can also involve the stomach and try to stretch the intimate muscles - your partner will appreciate it. By the way, such a simple thing as pulling in the belly, in addition to its aesthetic function greatly enriches your sensations - the front wall of the vagina automatically strains, allowing you to "tighten" the partner's penis.
Change position
Once in bed from the top, try changing the angle, turning your back on the partner. This allows for deeper penetration. The woman has a convenient opportunity to further stimulate the testicles and the crotch of the partner, and the man in the meantime can view the thin waist of his beloved. Another bonus: in this pose, you can not at all worry about how you look in front. You can finally relax, squint, from the heart to pinch your face and, if you like, caress yourself.
When the man behind
First, according to statistics, this posture is the best and beloved for most men. Secondly, in it you will always look perfect. The fact is that when you are bent on your knees, the skin on the buttocks and thighs is smoothed out, and your waist is more clearly outlined. The "back view" is terrific. Do not forget how to bend your back in the lower back. So you make it easier for a man to access intimate areas, and besides, look much more exciting.
When you lie on your back
The position of the "man from above" in different variations (when the partner is lying, hanging over you on elbows or kneeling) has always been considered very tender, you look into each other's eyes, embrace and can whisper the innermost. Lying on your back, raise your hands above your head - this visually lifts your chest, in addition, such a gesture will provide a closer body rubbing against the nipples. Try to lift the pelvis slightly to increase pressure on the clitoris. Remember, the more a woman in this position has her knees bred, the more profound and strong frictions a man can make.
Oral caresses
If you love the position "69", do not forget to take care of an intimate haircut beforehand. According to a survey conducted by the American magazine Playboy, 60% of men prefer a "natural" look to short-cropped pubic hair, 20% like a neat "path," and almost 70% adore a complete lack of hair in the bikini zone, revealing the most exhilarating overview of feminine delights. Many women are embarrassed by the appearance of their "open" genitals, and very vainly - little that is able to arouse a partner so quickly and strongly.
"Naked" pubis not only like your man, chained to himself all his attention, but also you will be presented with new sensations. If you have never tried completely to get rid of hair, then certainly appreciate how much your sensations will become more acute.
After sex
If you have already tried to take advantage of profitable perspectives during the making of love, you probably felt that they are able to please not only the partner, but above all to you: you become more confident in yourself, are more easily aroused and more fully committed to the process. And how to be outside the bedroom? About visual stimulants is worth remembering beyond its limits. Watch for your posture, grace and smooth movements, emphasize your dignity with clothing and cosmetics and stay desired in any circumstances.
OPINION EXPERT:
Evgeny KULGAVCHUK, sexologist, psychotherapist, vice-president of the Russian Association of Sexologists
What advantages do we get when discarding constraint in sex?
Openness is an important part of love. If a woman hesitates, she becomes less emotional, and the man perceives this as inadequate sincerity. In such situations, men often have a syndrome of anxious expectation of failure. A woman should not constantly plan what will be the best in bed. You just need to be confident and enjoy each other's closeness.
What does a man pay attention to during sex?
For the majority of men, a whole perception of the picture is important. Rarely, one of the men at the time of intimacy will consider the female body as meticulously as a woman can do. Believe me, men are not important to all parts of the female body separately. He perceives only a "general picture" in which the passion, sincerity of feelings, expression of genuine pleasure is important.
What would you advise a woman if the complexes about her appearance prevent her from enjoying herself in bed?
After in an individual conversation with a man I reveal the "card" of his sexual stimuli, I with full responsibility convince a woman what she needs to do and what not. Those who trusted and risked changing the long-term scenario often celebrate the second "honeymoon". Often a good help is the use of additional accessories: stocking, shoes, boots, a new hairstyle. Sometimes it is enough to turn on the light - and new sensations are provided ...
How to bring his orgasm
Change the position to a more "deep" position, so that the penis head is stimulated by the cervix for each friction. This is achieved in the knee-elbow position, as well as in the "hussar" position, when you lie on your back, and your legs are thrown over the partner's shoulders.
Get closer contact by tightly squeezing your legs. The effect will be unambiguous.
How to delay his orgasm
Ask your partner to move slower.
Relax the muscles of the vagina and abdomen.
Accept the position that prolongs the sexual intercourse, for example, become a "rider", lie on your side with your back to your partner or sit in the chair facing each other.
Take a short break, switching to petting.
Little tricks
Turn off the night light and light the candles - the muted flickering light hides the small defects and presents us in the most favorable light.
The correct shine in the eyes and easy "fogging" can be achieved with a glass of champagne. If you are for any reason embarrassed by the shape of your breasts - leave the bra on yourself.
If you have a magnificent form, pay attention to the positions in which you are on top. If you want, you can lean back on the pillows or on the partner's knees bent. When choosing a new underwear, listen to the opinion of your man.
The type of semi-obscure nudity acts excitably on 72% of men. Leave an unbuttoned shirt or stockings on.
Before you go to the bedroom, dissolve your hair. This is exciting!