"There must be some mystery in a woman!" - the poets compose. "... And also a clue and a clue" - specify the men who were the victims of too mysterious women, lost in the labyrinth of inept or over-restrained intrigues. We know for certain that men, by virtue of their "hunting" nature, are averse to women who need to be solved, sought and conquered. No one is interested in easy prey! A man needs adrenaline and excitement in an attempt to tame the obstinate, unruly and inaccessible woman. In this game he revels in his victory, and loves himself in it. So, love and a woman who engenders in it this storm of emotions. How can a man become mysterious, inaccessible and desirable, without turning into a puzzle, about which he will break his head?
- Stay yourself. The first and most important rule is to be natural. To sculpt yourself in the image and likeness of a star, friend, mother - means to give up your unique nature. And it is in it that the mystery that your ideal man is looking for can be, or for which he already fell in love. And even if these qualities seem to be bad or old-fashioned, do not rush to abandon them. Make an audit. Perhaps, among them there are those that make you charismatic and unlike other women. Men do not like boring "templates". It's better to be weird than that like everyone else. Every woman should have her own "madness"!
- Keep the secret. God did not give us two ears and only one mouth for nothing. Listen more and speak less! Women are often difficult to cope with the desire to chat. And if a man asks and questions, then he is to blame - let him listen. So not for long and "military secrets" to hand over, not that personal. In an interview with a man (especially on a first date) avoid talking about yourself, and return questions too blunt, leave unanswered or joke. For example: "Mmm ... What a good question! But while it's a secret! Do you know how to keep secrets? Yes? That's good ... Me too! "Become an interviewer for the man. Let him tell you what he considers a mystery in a woman.
- Intrigue. Keep a man's interest warmed up always possible with the help of intrigue and understatement. Men have a very developed fantasy, although they do not even always know about it. So, for example, do not answer the question "Are you free tonight?" And directly. Give the man food for the mind. Tell me mysteriously: "I can not answer. I gave a subscription about the non-disclosure of this secret! "And in general, do not rush to answer questions. Hold pause. It's intriguing! Although, as the main heroine of the famous Somerset novel Moema, wise Julia Lambert said: "Do not pause unnecessarily, and if you took it - pull it as much as you can!" A delicate pause intrigues better than a semi-nude body.
- Be unpredictable. As if men were not indignant, not understanding the course of women's thoughts and the logic of actions, their curiosity is always aroused by women who are difficult to predict. Be unpredictable! For example:
- A monotonously pouring conversation, which does not bode any surprises, abruptly interrupt and say something like: "Look at these lovers. They are so sweet!". And as if nothing had happened, continue your languid conversation.
- Rapidly evolving meeting finish yourself, sharply and much earlier than expected. Do not be interrogated and do not agree to persuasion. Leave without further explanation, but leave an honest hope for the next meeting.
- Disappear unexpectedly at the height of the meeting, leaving a note on a napkin with a text such as "Left to save the planet from global warming!" And draw a smiley face.
- To be absolutely beautiful. One of the main mysteries in a woman should always be the procedures with which she brings her beauty: depilation, manicure, pedicure, eyebrow correction, masks, hair curlers, etc. Let him continue to remain in holy ignorance, that the evening " Butterfly, "was a" caterpillar "in the morning. And let him continue to think that you were born with makeup, hair, shaved legs and lace underwear, when he calls and joyfully reports: "Get ready! In ten minutes I will! "
- Be an actress. All women are actresses, but the true skill is to remain yourself, to be all the time different, mysterious and incomprehensible. Impotent game, insincerity and manipulation a man will feel at once. Imagine that your life is a movie, you are the main character in it. Play, pretending to Oscar! And play, admiring yourself, your thoughts, feelings and actions. Think about how to behave in this or that situation, so that if you look at it from the outside, you can admire yourself. Live in the role of a chic woman of a chic film. Believe it yourself, and your man will look at you with your same loving eyes.
- Learn from idols. It is difficult to develop the habit of always remaining mysterious for a man, if this is not in the blood, and in the family all women were not the best example to go over a clever tactic or copy a ready-made model of behavior. The heart of ideas and tips will be books, films, television. Strong women, at the feet of which there were whole army of men, share their secrets in autobiographical revelations, books and films. In their success stories, there is always something to learn and find answers to questions about the incomprehensible and mysterious female soul. The main thing in this case, remember the rule number 1 - to improve, but to remain itself.
- Do not philosophize craftily. Do not be too smart with secrets, riddles and inaccessibility, so that it does not work out, as in a joke:
- In a woman there must be a riddle ...
- You mean there are no riddles in me ?!
- One mystery, not a collection of problems in quantum physics!