In general, what in this situation means an intelligent woman, an intelligent man and easy flirting? Well, firstly, let's analyze the behavior of an intelligent girl who does not want a man to cross the line. So, if the lady is not going to spend the night with a guy, she will never allow him to treat him with cocktails and other drinks or food. The fact is that everyone knows this unwritten rule: I'm crying here, and then you'll pay me. Treat a stranger, the guy makes a contribution and wants to receive dividends. If this does not happen, he can be extremely disappointed and angry, which will lead to conflict and aggression. Of course, offending a woman is low, but still, by and large, in such situations, it is true, it is on the side of men. After all, all adult girls know that free cheese is only in a mousetrap, so you need to either give up, or go to the end. Single men, coming to the club, often look for girls with whom you can spend the night. In fact, they pay for cocktails and other goodies for future prospects. And, if the girl starts to refuse at the last minute, although before that she ate with pleasure and drank and behaved obviously not unambiguously, then, of course, the guy would anger it and it's good if he is a well-bred young man. Otherwise, there may be a quarrel or even a fight.
That is why, an intelligent woman should remember one more thing - immediately set the boundaries and frames for which she will not go. If a guy gets to know you, try to immediately explain to him what you can hope for and what is not, and that the word "no" really means "no", not "yes, but later". A young man should know what to expect and have the right to retire, if such an option does not fit. And do not be offended and angry, because you are both free people who do not know each other and do not owe anything to a friend. And, even more so, you should not develop complexes in yourself, that you are ugly and the like. If the guy first approached you, then you attracted him. Simply, this evening he really has other plans that do not agree with yours, that's all.
What is easy flirting? This is when the girl herself does not go beyond the bounds of what is allowed and does not allow this guy. Phrases, looks, light touches, dances, maybe kisses, but no more. Do not wake up in a man excessive sexual arousal. You're not going to spend the night with him, so why torture a young man? In addition, if you cross over the line, you can not restrain yourself. And if you understand that you will be afraid of it this morning, then stop and remember about it. Sometimes, under the influence of emotions and alcohol, we make mistakes, which we regret for a very long time. Therefore, if you go to a nightclub alone, then decide for yourself what you will allow, and what will not happen, no matter how circumstances develop. And unquestioningly follow your plan. Even if you want to stray sharply, remember what you promised yourself and about the consequences for you of your own. And, best of all, take with you a reliable friend or girlfriend who will gently follow your behavior, and if something happens, they will stop and withdraw from the club. Close people and loyal friends are the best guarantor of mistakes and stupidities.
By the way, how does an intelligent man behave? Well, firstly, he does not need to repeat a hundred times what you want, and what not to do. Such a guy will not be endless and boring to persuade you, like a worn-out record. On the contrary, he will listen to your "rules" and either immediately say a cultural apology or try to follow them. Most often, guys who agree to easy flirting, come just to have fun in a good company, and not find a girl for one night. Of course, they like women's attention, but their main goal is exactly flirting and communication, and not subsequent sex. Therefore, with such young people you can not only flirt, but also talk. Often, they are intelligent and erudite, they know a lot and will gladly support the conversation on various topics. With such a man doubly pleased to flirt and spend time, because he knows how to flirt, but does it subtly and unobtrusively, so that it is really difficult for women to resist him. These guys never go for everyone in a row, do not behave vulgarly and cheekily, and, even more so, do not stick. They will lead the conversation, look, smile, and do not begin to impudently bury you on the dance floor. Such behavior is the destiny of those who have neither intelligence nor imagination, and considers all women to be simply chillies who are ready to be of any attention, even this. With such individuals it is better not to get involved and stay away from them as far as possible. These individuals completely do not understand the human language, explanations and refusals. They just bend their line, not noticing anything around. Therefore, if you do not want troubles, it is better to immediately let know that there will not be any communication (maybe even in a rough form) and try to get away from this young man.
If an intelligent woman and an intelligent man have come together, an easy flirtation can always come about. He will help you to relax, will scatter and have a good time with a good person. Sometimes, it is necessary for each of us. In addition, in life there are a variety of stories and surprises waiting around every corner. Who knows, because it can happen that this easy flirtation, grow into a big and pure love. And then, you will happily remember that evening when you did not allow yourself anything more and showed yourself as a girl who is worthy not only of attention, but of love.