So, how to behave to the husband with the pregnant wife, in what to concede and in what to help? Dear men, in order to live with a pregnant woman for nine months, you need to be patient and learn how to react calmly to many things that seem silly, absurd or ridiculous. If you remember with your wife about this after the birth of your child, then most likely, she herself will not be able to explain why she did it. Therefore, make sure that these memories are accompanied by laughter, not resentment.
So, how to behave with a pregnant woman? First, it is necessary to help her in everything. Even in the early stages, a woman can no longer be overstretched, lift weights and engage in manual labor. And do not remember the times when women worked on the field until the last and gave birth directly under the haystacks. Of course, all this was, but it is worth remembering how many women died and during childbirth, how many children did not survive or they were born cripples. Therefore, do not behave negligently and think that everything will be fine. Of course, it will, but this does not negate the need to insure and protect. Be very affectionate with your wife. Try to help her in everything you can. Never let a pregnant woman do laundry and cleaning, especially at a later date. Of course, not all men know how to manage a household. But everyone can learn. Especially it will be useful to you after the birth of your child, because at that time your wife will no longer be engaged in washing, cleaning and cooking. Therefore, even if the wife herself undertakes to do something, try to take on most of the work. But at the same time, the main thing is not to treat his wife, as if she is a cripple or deadly sick. Sometimes husbands start to take care of their loved ones too much. Do not let go of a step and do not allow to pick up even a feather. This behavior, of course, is too much. Still, a woman should feel like a normal person. Especially this applies to strong ladies who are used to doing everything themselves. In this case, she needs help, not forgetting to remind that she did not become weak at all, just now she is responsible for two lives and should allow at least some time to worry about her and help her.
Also, men are often surprised by women's whims, when they want something ice cream, then salted cucumbers, and with an interval of twenty minutes. Sometimes guys start to think that they are bullied. In fact, this is not the case at all. Just because of changes in the body, many natural processes are violated in women, and the need for some products then appears, then disappears. Understand this with a sense of humor and understanding, and not with annoyance. Remember that a woman herself understands some inadequacy of her desires and behavior, but, at the moment, she simply can not do anything about it. Of course, sometimes ladies use their positions a little, but, in the main, their vagaries are inexplicable to themselves.
Therefore, if the girl wanted to pineapple at two o'clock in the morning - buy her this pineapple. Even if she rushes by the time you bring this ill-fated fruit home, her action will be extremely important to her. Every lady wants to be listened to. And in this position she wants it twice.
Also, you should remember that because of the hormonal changes in the background during pregnancy, the female psyche becomes quite unstable. Of course, this does not mean that every lady turns into a capricious hysterical woman. Some girls behave almost the same as always. But for some women, pregnancy really becomes stress. If your wife is like that, never get angry and do not be offended by her. Your negative attitude will affect the psychological health, which is directly related to the physical.
Remember that pregnant women in any case can not be very worried, frightened, nervous, otherwise all these stresses will affect the health of the mother and child. Therefore, even if a woman cries and is angry for no reason, she does not need to explain to her that she is not right. Just calm her down, tell me how you love and appreciate. Believe me, in such a state, it is difficult for women to take sensible arguments. But they will gratefully accept the tenderness and support on your part.
In general, pregnant women should always be reminded that you love them and appreciate that they are the most beautiful and desired. Many women in the situation have thoughts that the husband can stop loving her because of her gaining weight, can not take care of herself as before, and the like. Even if you understand that this is nonsense and there is no reason to think so, do not be angry. If you scream at his wife, then her behavior confirm her thoughts. But this is not true and you do not want to offend the mother of your future child. Therefore, be gentle with her, love and appreciate, make small gifts and surprises. You do not have to give gold and diamonds if you do not have the means to do it, but every man can bring a bouquet of flowers and sweets from time to time.
When a lady is pregnant, every guy has the opportunity to prove himself a true knight, because it is during this period of life that she is truly fragile, needing support, protection, attention and care.