As he feels a man already having a family, children, position in society, often in every respect quite respectable citizen. And only his half knows that from time to time he is late not at work ...
Scientists constantly tell us about the polygamous nature of man's nature. The male tries to fertilize as many females as possible in order to continue his life. At the expense of "fertilize" - it's unlikely that they really want this, changing, but to participate in a similar process, the result of which will not be a continuation of the genus, but simply pleasure they clearly do not mind.
We, in our turn, try to prevent this nature with all our might: we do everything to become unique and unique, most-most, sometimes take offense or make scandals, and sometimes, we can not stand treason, we leave, come back, forgive or not return and do not forgive. Trying to understand why a man is betraying a woman is difficult, and often impossible.
And when once again, after learning about the affair on the side of your loved one, you ask: "Why?". He guiltily looks and says: "Forgive me," swears that the one, the other, does not mean anything to him, that the devil has beguiled and now he will only be with you.
He actually becomes more attentive and, it seems, you have a second "honeymoon". And you forgive, or (someone after the first, someone after the tenth time) collect things and leave. Forever.
The reasons for the betrayal of men is a lot: maybe, though, "the devil wasted", just wanted something new, the girl was too pushy, he wanted to realize their fantasies, tortured thirst for adventure.
There are also altruists who want to give pleasure to as many women as possible, to improve their techniques. Perhaps this is also one of the ways of self-affirmation, or another justification for its debauchery. In general, there are many things in life, no one is immune from this.
Coping with treason is very difficult, but according to statistics, the older a woman becomes, the more tolerant she is of the adventures of her windy companion. But are there any less wounds to the heart from this? Probably, not.
For most fans to walk on the side of the one, the other, does not really mean anything, it's just a sport. At least they say so. There is a personal, and there is a family.
Forgive and you will wait with a sinking heart, when the next "bell" will be distributed, you will not forgive and you will bite your elbows, cry at night without your beloved and reproach yourself for unconquerable pride. But only if you really love, will not change.
If you are to him the most precious thing in life, he will think a hundred times before he does something that he will regret later, something that could potentially hurt you. Better, of course, if you never learn about it, but live and know that you are changed from time to time, so to maintain the form, it's painful and difficult.
Although there are women who say that they do not care, let them walk, because he always comes back. Whom they try to deceive by such statements: themselves or others, or simply do not want to look miserable and abandoned to their friends.
The Arabs have a good saying: what happened once can never happen again, and what happened twice will certainly happen the third time. The choice is always, of course, for you: to leave, stay with the traitor, reconcile or arrange scenes. But the main thing do not blame yourself that you are in something not so that you do not satisfy it.
If you want to keep your loved one nearby, be wiser, do not put between yourself and him a wall of alienation and resentment. Of course, it will be difficult, but try to be even more tender and caring, believe me, if you care about him, he will not want to lose you for anything in the world.