Successful career
Before even thinking about children, it's necessary for both parents to get education. This will be much easier than with children. Also, before the advent of the child, the mother must learn the rights, the ability to drive a car is very useful.
It is very important in our modern life to have a stable material well-being. The presence of an apartment, car and money facilitates our existence. But after the birth of the baby, my mother will have to leave work for a long time. Upbringing and caring for a child take a very long time, even after he starts to attend a kindergarten. Therefore it is very difficult to combine career and children. In this case, most of their duties will have to be shifted to a nanny or grandmothers. Children feel lonely, they lack motherly love and affection. Therefore, it is better to build your career as a baby. While there are no children, you can try yourself in different areas, in the search for the most suitable. In the change of workplace or even the profession of a non-terrifying person, while you are responsible only for yourself.
A man must also make a successful career before the moment of replenishment. It is worthwhile to understand that all responsibility for material well-being in the family will lie only on one's shoulders. A child's upbringing requires a very large amount of money. At the time of the appearance of the child, the head of the family should have a stable job with low-income earnings. It is necessary to strive for this and it is necessary to exert all-effort.
Enjoy active and bright rest
Many families, even with young children, travel to different countries. But in general, quiet hotels are selected, with a minimum of nightlife. More important is the importance of the children's pool and a special menu. Therefore, while there are no children, it is worthwhile to perform several bright trips without prohibitions and restrictions. You can afford ski resorts, hot countries with discos until the morning. If there is enough money, the ideal option is a round-the-world trip.
Children completely do not like sightseeing tours around Europe. Consideration of monuments, art galleries or castles is not at all pleasing. They quickly get tired and have a lot of problems. Therefore, until the child has appeared, we must try to visit independently Paris, Prague or Venice. Pleasant and interesting memories will last a lifetime.
Make an extreme case
Adherence to children, most people become more serious and responsible. They cease to commit reckless, bold and stupid acts. Parents try to think ahead of each step. This is especially true for women who have a strong maternal instinct. Decide on a dangerous extreme act after the appearance of the child will be very difficult. There will always be a fear of leaving your most precious child as an orphan.
Therefore, before the advent of a child, it is worth trying to jump with a parachute or ride on the most terrible roller coaster in the world. If for you it does not fit and is too extreme, then you can just go to a strip club or visit a nude beach. Unintentional, unexpected actions can sometimes be performed.
Enjoy loneliness with your beauty
Umam does not have weekends and holidays, she is constantly busy with something. It will be difficult to find a few hours to quietly read interesting books or watch an interesting movie. Therefore, while the family does not have children, it is worthwhile to fully enjoy the free life and the opportunity to independently allocate their time. You can watch your favorite show all night long, and then sleep before dinner. Or, on the contrary, go to bed at seven in the evening to wake up and enjoy the dawn. It's great to walk around the city at night or not to leave the whole weekend off the bed. Until the baby appeared, the mother independently decides how to use her leisure time, then this can only be dreamed of.
Most women, with the advent of children, begin to devote less time to themselves and their externalities. Not everyone has the opportunity to spend large sums on outfits, make-up and favorite jewelry. Therefore, while there is no baby, you need to fully merenade your youth and beauty. Do not deny yourself shopping for the fashion and stylish things. We should visit shops and beauty salons as often as possible. Only a woman without children is able to lower all salaries in the store for one day. You can use the services of a professional photographer and make high-quality photos, perhaps even a frank plan.
Especially it is necessary to be engaged in the figure and health. This will certainly help in the future. It is important to learn to be not only healthy, but also to receive pleasure and joy from life. This can help with yoga or special training. The positive mood in life is extremely important.
Fulfill all desires and dreams
After the birth of a baby, a woman begins to experience joy from the appearance of the first tooth or the said first word. Favorite before meeting with friends or dancing dutra can be annoying and not bring pleasure. All wishes and dreams can change. Therefore, do not postpone them for later.
Enjoy your second half
After the appearance of the baby, many couples say that there is very little time left on personal relationships. Very rarely you can spontaneously make love or spend a romantic dinner alone.
It is important to make a beautiful and memorable wedding, which ends with a wedding journey. At any opportunity, it is worth leaving for two to rest and engage in love. It is necessary to try to have supper together, after all at occurrence of the kid it will be made difficultly enough.
Some parents completely disagree with the opinion that life after the appearance of children is very different. It depends only on the person himself, his character and mood. If there is only one child in the family, then for many things there will necessarily be time. Help relatives can help young parents not make serious adjustments in their lives.