Different people have different processes in this process. Someone transcends through feelings and confidently walks on in search of a new happiness, someone leaves, but remains a faithful friend for life. But what if, neither of these things is possible? Want to get some tips on how to quickly forget a loved one?
Of course, we need to take a sober look at things - we also understand that to forget your loved one completely, is not given to anyone, but to get out of love relationships and distract yourself from gloomy thoughts enough to remember the past as rarely as possible, quite realistically.
The easiest way, probably, will plunge into work with a head. Of course, there are advantages to this pastime. For example, if you increase the work load, then the authorities, evaluating your zeal, most likely, will increase your salary, or even raise in office. Again, the time to dive into gloomy thoughts and the samoyedstvuyuschee with them simply will not remain! But on the other hand, your body, as well as nerves, not iron and its forces are in the habit of ending, so treat it with respect and consider other options.
It has long been noted that the hard periods of life, as well as the joyful ones, are better experienced collectively! Try to spend as little time as possible alone. Meet with friends, spend time together and talk on abstract topics. It is very important to immediately stop all attempts to find out what happened, especially if you are uncomfortable talking about it. Just warn everyone that you do not want to talk about it and will be grateful if this issue does not continue to be repeated. By the way, a good way of collective communication is a forum on the Internet! Find a related site and boldly step into the forum. Feel free to tell your story, listen to others ... Who knows, maybe one of them will meet that will make you believe that, in fact, everything is not so bad for you.
Not a bad option, also, do self-education. Sign up for some interesting courses. Learn to drive a car, speak Chinese, weave macrame ... The options really do not count and they all cast attention to the fact of forgetting the very person who hurt you!
Moving on. Think of a hobby. Start collecting something. Of course, to collect a collection of rare diamonds would be very nice, but let's be realistic, this hobby is in the pocket of units, but a collection of statuettes, magnets on the refrigerator, and even bottles of shampoo, if only it justified its purpose and helped to forget about whom to think at all I do not want. If this hobby also seems banal to you, think up your own, special, understandable only to you. Guess the figurines of animals in the clouds, collect the herbarium, make up your own, no one knows a language and talk on it with yourself. Here, as in war, all means are good.
Many people make a huge mistake trying to forget a loved one with strong drinks. I will say at once - this option is not just not suitable, but should be completely eliminated! Under the influence of alcoholic intoxication, people often make nonsense. It is especially stupid when, after getting drunk, a person begins to call a former partner and stumbling around with his tongue trying to find out why he did it. Believe me, nothing but pity from the interlocutor does not arise. But we do not need to regret, do we? Then the tail is a pistol and move on!
Fight fire with fire. A familiar proverb? Why not take advantage of it and try to meet your new, happier love? Look around you. Perhaps, very close to you there is a man who has long been trying to show you that you are not indifferent to him? So give him a chance!
And, finally, the last. Want to quickly forget your loved one? Then love yourself, finally, and stop loving it! Go to the beauty salon, change the image or even the circle of communication, especially if it coincides with you. Enjoy life. And in your soul there simply will not be room for depression.