True, thank God, we do not live in the Middle Ages, and such a thing as divorce is permitted by our legislation. Therefore, if your loved one is already married, then this will not necessarily become an insurmountable obstacle. But divorce is a very difficult step, and not everyone will immediately decide on it. So how to help your loved one will decide on a divorce, if it is already clear to both of you that he loves you, and with another woman he is not happy?
To begin with, we must make a reservation that, so to speak, popular methods, to become pregnant, or to send to your wife, your photos (and, in general, the acceleration of divorce through your wife), we sweep aside at once. And not only because of moral ethical considerations, but also because if it opens, this is the surest way to lose a loved one. And as it shows, again folk practice, these deceptions are opened in 99 cases out of 100, because in order for a man to be really happy with you, he must go to divorce himself and be aware. But as long as he decides on it himself, months, or even years of wearisome suspense and emotions, can pass. So let's look at some tips on how to help our beloved to turn around with his wife.
Council first, straight path, shortest.
As they say "honesty is the best policy!", And sometimes, as it is not strange, it is really so. After all, a new relationship with your beloved, it's best to start with truthful words. Tell him that your relationship needs to grow further, that you see that he is not happy with his wife. That living on two families is not an option, and thus by and large, makes everyone worse off. And to yourself, and you and his wife. Do not just insist and threaten, you just need to explain to him your vision of the situation, you do not have to demand an answer right away, give him time to think. You can return to this conversation several times, but not too often, you do not need to drip on your brains and crush it. Very often it is this conversation that men do not have enough to decide to file for divorce.
Advice the second, show him that you are better.
We proceed from the fact that the man himself sees that you are better than his today's companion of life. But it will never be superfluous to emphasize your dignity. If you are prettier, then this and stay, do not appear before him without makeup, do not meet him in an old coat, you must keep the bar high. If you are smarter, then show it, give it communication at such an intellectual level that the wife can not give. The same applies to cooking, and bed and anything. We must emphasize their dignity, and then the man himself will want to be with you, and will file for divorce. True, this method may have complications, if successful, will have to continue to keep a high set bar, or gradually translate it to a more vital level, which in turn is fraught with disappointment.
In the remark to this point, we should add that you should not go on lying, if you do not know how to cook, do not convince yourself that you cook better than she does! Remember, what was said above is "honesty, the best policy"!
The third advice. Show him that she's worse.
As the name implies, this advice goes hand in hand with the previous one. But it has its own nuances that must be considered. First of all, do not hate your wife. Her shortcomings should not be presented with a big aplomb, after all, he married her and it can trite him. Therefore, its shortcomings should be shown unobtrusively, this will give dignity to you, in his eyes.
And finally ...
As you understand, these tips are not universal, for example, if a loved one with his wife has children or a common business, this can give a complication. So, before you begin to induce your loved one to divorce, you need to carefully consider and consider the situation.