We all know that women love attentive attitude. We are very pleased to receive any signs of appreciation and appreciation, compliments, gifts. A woman can unobtrusively help a man to tell her what she wants. This amazing ability is inherent in nature, so everything happens at the subconscious level. The long-established stereotype that women love ears is well known to everyone, but it is believed that the way to the heart of men should be poured only through the stomach. Do men not have a desire to receive praise from their chosen one or a sweet word?
This is not true. Just men are assigned the role of a reserved woman in the feelings of a defender. But he caresses, and caresses, and attention to himself, no less than a woman. Therefore, in order to preserve harmony in relations, one must not forget about the partner's feelings, not to disregard all his actions. And it is through his actions to find out what he wants at the moment from you, having done this act.Sincere interest
Communicating with a man, you must always be sincere, do not be afraid to speak from the heart. In the intonations there should be no false notes. The strong sex feels it very well. Your tender care of him will be appreciated. But do not try to encroach on his freedom. It will end badly. You should not talk to him in an orderly tone or, conversely, see him as your child and try to solve his problems motherly. He is already a man held, let him decide what is acceptable for him. But occasionally he will not give up pleasant and kind words from you. The main thing is that your words are sincere, and he will feel it.
Attitude to the situation
Everyone has situations when something has to be changed, altered. Men to such problems are quite calm, they are not annoying. They will find both an explanation and a solution. But women in such moments can not suppress their negative emotions, they start to take offense, shout, swear. They can not explain why this happened and how to correct this event. And if a man postponed a date, then there are a lot of reasons. And women's guesses will look stupid in the eyes of a man. After all, he just broke down the machine or in the service detained the head.
What can I say to him about this? We must try to understand the reasons, find out what happened at work, what is the breakdown of the car and how long will it be repaired? It is never necessary to roll up hysterics, to search and bring empty reasons. This will irritate him, there will be a quarrel, which can put your marriage at risk.
Intimate sphere
And do not think that only the weaker sex loves the ears. Any man also likes to hear about himself nice words and testimonials. This is especially true of the intimate sphere. As a hunter, he will be incredibly pleased to hear enthusiastic words, compliments from the caught deer. This greatly raises his self-esteem. He begins to feel like a patron of the bedroom and will try very hard to please you in every way.
Home Affairs
Women like it when a loved one praises her for a delicious lunch or dinner, evaluates the starched shirt for him at a high level. But sometimes ladies forget that this is the same thing that men like. Nailed the shelf - praise for the work, fix the faucet - also say thank you. Your opinion for a man is always very valuable. Remember this. And the quality of his work should not be evaluated. The main thing is you see and accept his work. Do not tell him about the crooked nailed down shelf, but try to remake the work with him together. He will appreciate your sincere attitude to him and the next time will please you with the quality of the work done, which you instructed him.
Signs of attention
Even if you have lived a very long life in a marriage, have got used and have fastened for a long time to each other, then all the same tell him about his attractiveness and sexuality. If a man begins to change, then he does not feel welcome and sexual in the family, there is emptiness, which later is filled with treason. Do not spare compliments, admire your loved one. He will then know that you need and will not break your established marriage.
Importance of advice
A real man should realize that he is the lead, not his woman. This is very important for men! Give him to be the head of the family, consult him on important issues, consider his opinion. This greatly increases the importance of men. If a woman asks for his help, then she trusts him in solving the problem. After all, you can not use the advice, but you must definitely ask for your opinion. Happiness to you in marriage!