Do not limit yourself to any one idea or specific strategy for meeting new people. To make many friends is not as difficult as it might seem at first glance. So how to make a lot of friends? Try several different ways for dating at the same time:
- Attend various sports events, go to theaters, shows, concerts, go to reading rooms, public organizations, sign up for courses on interests.
- Have a volunteer in an organization for young people. Usually, strong friendly relations begin in the process of teamwork. In addition, you will have a real chance to get to know people with similar interests.
- Be a member of some club (if desired, several) that you like. Thus, you will have many new friends.
- Get a friend or girlfriend, and then you will have the opportunity to get to know their friends, and thus the circle of your friends will increase significantly
- Periodically go to parties, there is a real chance to make friends.
- Have different parties on your own.
- If you are studying at a university, then become, for example, the headman of your group or at the head of the Youth Council.
- Do not ignore the Internet.
Also remember where you met before, look at the newspaper and find out what events are planned in your city, and take part in the most interesting for you! There you can make many friends.
Do not forget that some people with great pleasure for many hours "sit" in the chat, so in fuller a real and effective way to get acquainted or, at least, for a while to get rid of oppressive loneliness. You will also have the opportunity to choose interested forums, share your point of view, and, in the end, get acquainted and make a lot of friends!
What do you need in order to start a conversation? Well, with what it is desirable to start a conversation:
1. First of all, a smile and a good mood. When you have a smile on your face, people think that you are easy to communicate with and a friendly person.
2. The most elementary way to establish a connection with a person is to say something pleasant in his address or simply make a compliment.
3. Ask your new acquaintances about their lives, hobbies, passions, hobbies, where they work / live, etc.
4. During the conversation you also do not need to be silent. If someone applies to you, be sure to answer, preferably in a jocular tone, in order to put your companion to him.
5. If you are sitting in a youth café, try to join a group of young people (naturally, asking their consent in advance). Or if you have already met someone, you can ask him to join you in a cafe (or go to a movie, etc.)
6. Send a small friendly message to your new friends by e-mail, and see if they answer it or not.
7. Continue to communicate with new acquaintances in the chat or ICQ. By the way, you can also make a lot of friends there.
8. If there is such an opportunity, offer your new friends their help in any matter.
9. Better not overload your friends with your constant calls and messages. Do not forget that nobody likes when they start to "get" constantly with calls.
10. Invite new acquaintances to walk a little along the street, look at shop windows or some sights!
Believe me, making a lot of friends is actually very simple. The main thing is to be friendly and open person, and then people will reach out to you.