Face - not young and not old, not beautiful and not ugly, usually average face, eyes dull and already tired, although now only earlier in the morning. The corners of the lips and eyebrows are lowered, making the face look like Piero's sad mask. "Interesting," a thought emerges, as gray as today's morning, "can this woman in the mirror attract the attention of a man? In my opinion, such a person is more suitable for sitting on it "you grin with unhappiness.
"But, there are women, like nothing and not better than you, and for men directly honey for flies" you frown, and without that gloomy eyebrows.
"I also want to, uh. I want to be always in the center of men's attention, "the inner child who lives in the soul of every woman immediately wails, and no-no, and the worm of envy stirs in her heart.
"So how can I make myself no less (or even more) attractive? How to make yourself a center of attention for men? "Suddenly you think.
What attracts the attention of a man, and what is the secret of the attraction of a woman?
First of all, we will drop envy, throw off discouragement and fatigue, and throw out the obsolete notions of attractiveness into the dump. Attraction is not beauty at all. Although beauty also does not hurt, but this concept of beauty is not exhausted. For attractiveness, instead of beauty, there is enough such a trifle as awareness of one's own beauty.
"Whence will I have an awareness of my beauty, if there is not much beauty in sight?" You raise your eyebrows skeptically.
Just believe that you are a priori beautiful. Believe, so to speak, for a word, without checking, feel that you are beautiful, amazing, gorgeous. Be sure of this without any reason, for no reason. The reason is there. Later.
" ... Confidence must be causeless,
She will find a reason for herself,
As a woman attracts a man to her ... " (V. Levi)
Well, with the presumption of beauty figured out what else is needed for attraction?
Radiant shine in the eyes?
And a radiant face?
And a smile not only on the lips, but also in words, in the waving of the eyelashes, in the movement of the eyebrows and the turning of the head?
And the light radiated by all of its being?
And a keen interest in everything that is happening around?
And an easy flying gait?
And a graceful posture?
And the ability to make their colors brighter, the day is lighter, the music is more melodic with only one of its presence?
And the manner of speaking to everyone as if it were the most unusual and interesting person in the world?
And ...
"Stop, stop, stop. How can all these just remember, but also fulfill? How can you portray all this at the same time, and still not forget anything? "You are clutching your head in panic.
And to represent anything and it is not necessary. All this must come to you invisibly, like a light morning sleep in the first rays of the sunrise. It should be born in you naturally, like a bright smile of the mother in response to the sonorous laughter of the child.
This should be part of you.
Want a simple answer, how to make yourself the center of attention of a man? Just fall in love with yourself ...
Feel yourself as the center around which people, houses, stars, the universe revolve ...
Believe in your beauty, youth, self-sufficiency, intelligence, which is the essence of a multifaceted and infinitely beautiful world.
Worship yourself as an idol, praise yourself as a queen, and then it will not matter to you that you are always in the center of attention of the men who surround you, and who fly to you from where from moths to fire. The main thing for you will be that you are in the center of attention of that same your man, the only and desired, for which your universe revolves.