What is the result of a healthy, harmonious relationship?
First, it is, of course, love, as a matter of course. Secondly, mutual understanding, mutual respect. Further the list from similar concepts can be continued infinitely. I want to dwell in more detail on this category of interpersonal relationships, like communication.
Here lies a great power. How much we can communicate with each other, depends a lot. To be able to talk, raise difficult questions without fear of offending a partner or spoil relations is a great art that every woman who is striving for peace in the family should comprehend. You need to be able to separate the main from the secondary, talk about the important thing that worries you. In order for you to be able to constructively conduct a dialogue, you must first learn how to talk with a partner in one language.
Remember the beginning of your relationship, when you could not talk to each other day and night. Whoever knows such happiness in a relationship that is just beginning, he understands what is at stake.
It is important to be able to keep this desire and the need for constant communication. True, at the very beginning, at the stage of active knowledge of each other, any conversation is interesting and important. Lovers literally absorb information about each other. Later, when the couple has moved to the next level of relations, the topic of conversations becomes more specific, the range of topics is narrowed. Here it is important to show wit and wisdom. That in family relations there was no "chill", it is necessary to try to make so that to the man - as before the lover was interesting and everything, about what she tells. Lovers always have something to say to each other, just do not overload this space with an empty listing of our female domestic exploits. This young wife, preparing dinner, considers herself, at least, the heroine. A man still does not appreciate it. Yes, and simply do not understand that here is so heroic. Most of them piously believe that a woman is already born with a cookbook in her head and her hands-transformers in the form of household appliances. We will not frustrate them by convincing them. Simply, even because it is unlikely to succeed.
Talk about feelings. After all, their great variety, which goes far beyond the limits, I love - I do not like, I hate - I adore. Open the dictionary, and you will be, pleasantly surprised: for any gamut of feelings there is a verbal definition.
While there is a family dialogue - a woman's happiness, almost safe. After all, any nascent conflict can be resolved at the root, to stop the development of the scandal and the consequences arising from this. If you learn to build close, trusting, open relationships with your partner, then you should not worry about inner harmony. And, therefore, nothing will threaten women's happiness in family relations.
After all, women's happiness is essentially a successful marriage, when relationships within the family are unshakable. Strong love gives a new life. And all this actively interacts with each other, it functions without interruptions, as a well-established clockwork mechanism.
Of course, happiness in relationships does not consist of two or three postulates. This is a huge, daily and hard work, which falls mainly on fragile female shoulders. And a strong man's shoulder should be just set in time. Labor is difficult, but it can be grateful, bearing fruits in the form of love, understanding and respect.
Thus, women's happiness in family relations consists of different components: love, trust, patience, mutual understanding, respect, honesty, frankness, the ability to listen and hear, the ability to conduct a conversation. Female happiness is very fragile, but it is. And it has the right to live in every family. And only we, women, know all the secrets how to preserve this ephemeral creature in family relationships.