Who are they?
So, immediately agree: the relationship of a single woman iodine man, we will not consider. Because in this regard, a man is not a lover, but a boyfriend, a future spouse or simply a partner. The main distinguishing feature of a lover is that he is married. An anonymous mistress, as a rule, is a woman free. For otherwise it is not at all clear what can push it into the arms of another man. Are they dissatisfied with their spouse and therefore decided to have a lover? This is not our method. A husband that does not satisfy you, you can a) change, b) change. But to change him is still dishonest.
Another option: you are a free lady, but you want to change your status. But there is only one "but": all the more or less suitable representatives of the stronger sex within the range of your charms and beauties are the bearers of the golden ringlet on the ring finger of the right hand and the stamp in the passport on the page "marriage", well, loving and waiting with a delicious dinner wife (and maybe one or two more children). Saying to yourself "a couple of affectionate" about this far from ideal world and the injustice that reigns in it, you want to charm one of these men with a sidetrack: let it be a lover for the first time, and then you will look at the itstatus quo. And here we should stop, because the chances that in the end everything will be exactly as you want and what you will dream about, of course, there are, but their ratio is approximately one to one hundred! Or even thousands! It is worth mentioning a curious pattern that is based on a simple truth: a woman who is ready to wait sitting at the window, when her beloved comes and who puts her life on the altar of a minimal shansik, can not become an ideal lover. And you can not argue with this.
In this case, all hopes are placed on the last option: you are a free woman who does not strive for marriage, but against small number of caress and love do not mind at all. And looking around, from the men around you, you choose the one who, though possessing all the properties from the previous point, is so gavel, witty, good-looking and in his luggage has unspent spareness and love that he can provide for your immediate use. Here you can safely congratulate both you and him! You have all the possibilities to become an ideal mistress, and he, accordingly, has all the ways to brighten up the gray family routine with a holiday of communication with you. It is for you that our code is composed. Based on all the rules of the genre, it includes the rights and responsibilities. Study - and for the cause!
Right to work and rest
By the way, for work and rest, which you will organize based on your personal interests. To stay late at work or work at home on a free schedule, fly on monthly business trips or spend a night in a club with friends - choose despite his plans. Firstly, he does not compare with your schedule when he comes and goes without warning. Secondly, believe me, he will start to appreciate and respect you much more if he sees that you are not fixated on the unfashionable and in your life there are a lot of other hobbies and people. Third, being an ideal mistress does not mean sacrificing one's interests. Lovers come and go, but you are alone. Plus, you do not have to cover the table for his arrival (for this purpose he has a wife, mother-in-law, mother). Your business is a good time with him.
Duty : it is unnecessary in his relationship with his wife to drive a wedge. In the end, it is she who builds her life under the strict supervision of her husband, and you are ready for this. In addition, you certainly do not want your meetings to turn into his long stories about family troubles? A happy husband is the best lover!
The right to a lover
Otherwise, what is the meaning of life? He can not give you due attention? The way out of this situation is very simple: get another lover. Think about it: your loved one does not keep you faithful - at least he sleeps with his wife (says he does not do it? Deceives!). And why should you curb your natural temperament, content with the small?
Coming in turn two lovers are equal to one husband and this is checked!
Duty : the ideal lover should inform the first lover that she is planning to establish another one. At the same time, emphasis should be put on his employment and his lack of attention to you. It starts to emerge - remind him that you are not husband and wife, and you are not the only one. So the policy of double standards of the plan - it is possible for him, and you do not, here completely rolls around.
Turned and left - do not be sorry. I just did not appreciate it-guilty.
The right to gifts
You want something to give a man? Sumptuously! But you should not think that this imposes any obligations on you. Still, you need to take from a man those gifts that you can in case of which you can turn without a special loss, i.e. - luxury goods and all that is not necessary, but a pleasant addition. Cakes, dresses, jewelry-please. Money to pay bills, no. In the worst case, you quickly turn from a mistress into a kept woman. Remorse on the topic "he tears off a piece of bread from the family" should be pushed into the background. Mistress - dearly-loved, and the man who decided to have a woman on the side, should be able to provide not only a family, but also a mistress.
Duty : it is not necessary to shift the problems of life to the lover. He wants to beat a picture-a hammer in his hand, but to nag him for it is the prerogative of his wife.
The right to a family
One day you realize that you want to get a family where a faithful husband will become your support and support, and children - a real joy life. At this moment, it's time to tell the lover about her plans for the future and remain good friends, set out in search of a narrowed. Of course, you can look for a husband and with a lover, but we are honest women and the effect of searching in this case will be less. It's not right to be offended, because to give you this, he can not. And to believe that he will divorce his wife, we still do not advise you! There are a lot of men in the world, and the position of a lover next to such a lady is long and empty.
Duty : if he decides to end your relationship, do not hinder him. Maybe he knew that his wife is the same! With dignity, thank him, preserving in memory the best moments that you had. However, if you are in all buditidealnoy mistress, turn to this item is unlikely to have to!