For many women, the conquest of a man is a difficult mission. No matter what: because of lack of courage and self-confidence, it is terrible to start a new relationship and seem too loose - in any case, inexperienced in amorous affairs, the girl is flirting and seducing is more comfortable practicing at a distance.
Even using exclusively modern methods of communication (telephone, social networks, mail, SMS, MMS) a woman can achieve a dizzying success. No matter what she needs: just sex or romantic relationships - there is a way to get the guy's attention and love without having to be timid from his gaze.
How to seduce a guy with words?
When developing a strategy of seduction, start with the name of the desired person. Any adult man will be flattered and intrigued if you pronounce his full name with the right intonation, avoiding ridiculous nicknames and inappropriate irony. Seduction of a man greatly facilitates the timely insertion of a working phrase with sexual overtones. For example: "Let's finish with this sooner", "Come closer". Try to imperceptibly insert into each sentence at least one word describing bodily sensations: touch, iron, touch, pull, bite, remove, push, etc. The effect from them is not immediately noticeable, but rest assured that the correct approach to subconscious seduction fuels a desire from which a man can lose his head at a decisive moment. Another category of tempting phrases is compliments. Affectionate words, spoken with admiration or respect, can excite a man as well as possible. Sexually, descriptions of endurance and indefatigability are good. Just be careful - a compliment should always be justified, so that the guy does not regard it as an attempt to self-serving flattery.
How to seduce by phone: ready phrases
When there are no sources of influence other than verbal, it is harder for a man to be seduced, but more interesting. The main rule in a telephone conversation is to be sincere, so that the guy feels himself special, dear to the girl person. It is desirable that for all occasions a woman should have a phrase ready at hand, satisfying the moral need of a man to be necessary and useful. Examples of such words are known to all:
- "I follow you, like a stone wall";
- "Thank you for everything you do for me";
- "Without you, I feel so alone";
- "I so missed you";
- "I do not know what I would do without you."
There are tens and hundreds of variations of such phrases, and do not be lazy to repeat them every time a need is felt. Practice shows that a man much more quickly loses interest in a partner who does not praise him, so why repeat this mistake? To seduce a man, sometimes enough of the necessary environment during a call. For example, if a girl at home is engaged in some intimate affairs, she should not restrain herself from remarks in the spirit:
- "I can not write now, I'm in the bathroom";
- "Wait, I'm all wet after a shower";
- "Call later, I need to undress";
- "Now I will open the window, otherwise I feel so hot", or on the contrary "I will close the window, it's too cold."
Any details of intimate life and personal bodily sensations will incline a man to a rapprochement, and, in the end, will help to seduce him.
How to seduce a mature man?
A mature man, unlike young guys, needs a lot more positive energy, which gives him the strength to enjoy life. Also, mature men are distinguished by a rigidly shaped character, indulging in which one can achieve much more than trying to change his nature. Therefore, to seduce a mature man, focus on your femininity and his manliness, behave like a girl and be immediate. And try to be patient - mature, especially married, a man will not just break off on the first pretext.
Seducing a man by SMS!
The right tempting approach to writing short messages can give rise to a turbulent romantic relationship. The guy to whom the text message is intended may not know the sender, but the woman must first of all, at least for a start, compose a psychological portrait of the chosen one, so as not to make mistakes in the first steps. Seduction by SMS is always a game in which every word or phrase is important. If the guy is self-confident, direct, simple-hearted and cheerful, you can intrigue and tempt him with a frank message, like: "I dream to be with you in bed," or "fell in love with you in your ears, can you help me with this?". Prepared in this way for the meeting, the guy will be located to the relationship, whatever one may say. Serious and thoughtful man to seduce frankness does not work - such a man, rather, will feel a falsity and refuse to react at all. To the guy from fright did not drop the phone, it is better to change the first attracting message to the banal: "Hello. My name is (choose a name) and I feel lonely. " A calm and serious guy, most likely a one-man, is often alone and does not like noisy companies, so you need to act accordingly. For whatever it takes to seduce a man by SMS: a woman needs a one-time sex or romantic relationship - it is necessary to treat this game with ease, since in reality only the one who desponds and gets frustrated without regard to the opposite sex loses.