Falling in love, you throw yourself into the ocean of passions, forget about the world around us and see, only with whom would like to spend all the time and days and nights. It seems that this will be forever and always, that every second you will be with your loved one nearby. And from this thought, the heart and soul are filled with happiness and joy.
But most of us have a moment in life when relations are not the same as they were before. Moments of complete happiness and love begin to give way to ordinary everyday life. That very individuality starts to take up. You cease to understand a loved one, you begin to correct it. It seemed as if some time ago, love so brightly and strongly glowing in the hearts begins to fade and wither as a flower that has not blossomed for a long time.
Yes, love can be compared with a rose, bright, with a beautiful aroma. But everyone who held it in their hands, knows about the spikes. If the flower is held carefully, without squeezing it in the vice with your hands, then only the pleasure of owning it will remain. And if you squeeze it, the thorns hurt your hands badly. So love can not be strongly squeezed, no matter how strong it was.
Parting, you think that this is always the case.
Instinctively resisting internal change, you try to forget your former partner.
But if there were real feelings between two people, then love will definitely make itself felt and come back again. Certainly the thought that suddenly if you will again together not that not to turn out, that the pain after the restoration of the relationship can in the future exert even stronger than it was before will disturb. To revive love again, trust, accept a loved one such as he is scary. But do not be alone to not feel anything, not that the lump of solitude is not a great pain?
Time heals wounds, time chills love but to live so much that it could pay it off is not destined for us.
The revival of love begins not noticeably. Then an accidental photo will fall on the eyes, then objects reminiscent of a loved one. You start to rethink everything that was before, all the quarrels, the times when, besides a loved one, there was no need for anyone. The thought of her or about him does not cease to go out of my head. We all are responsible for our relations and it is often easier to save them than to save them. Often we are afraid because we do not trust ourselves. We want to be proud and right in any issues. We wish to show our superiority over our partner. And it is very difficult to realize that you can not be the first in love, you can not be above your half. In love you need to be happy!
And in one second you start to think again and wonder. Does he think about you, what he does, what he does? Over time, you start to call and communicate.
Going to work accidentally encounter a newly found rose blooming and smelling. But its aroma is even brighter and stronger.
Only the true love of one of them can hinder the revival of the love of two people. And then, no matter how strong the love of the loving, not that it does not turn out. Do not try.
You can certainly try to change, change all that is in the way. But the most difficult thing is to change yourself. And if it turns out how long? Do you need to change yourself?
For love, it is important to feel, comfortable and safe, that you will not alienate even if there are differences in character, temperament. That you are one whole complementing each other. Of course, the revival of the love of two people depends on these two, not on one.
The revival of the love of two people is a sacrament, and the necessary condition for its fulfillment is reciprocity. Mutuality in love, deeds, actions. Reciprocity, respect and warmth.