1. Flirt is the basis of foreplay!
Remember your first kiss. How it was? Perhaps a little careless, but what fire of passion burned in you, what a powerful adrenaline rush and sharpness! So why do we forget this with age? We have grown older, but we can all feel it with the same force! Return to the past, revive your former passion with your loved one. Here are some tips for hot kisses:
- First gently, holding the partner's face in his hands, gently kiss his lips.
- Now gently kiss him around the lips and lower face.
- Move down the neck and caress his lips. Most men love to be kissed in the neck - this is one of the most sensitive areas!
- Now back to the mouth for a real French kiss - with the participation of the language.
- Feel free to make some noise. Men like to listen to the manifestations of your pleasure, this stimulates their desire.
A kiss should last as long as you want. Enjoy every minute! It may take a bit of practice to regain the habit of kissing, but it really is worth it!
2. Sexual dances.
Dancing together, can be one of the most erotic and sensual moments of foreplay. At the same time, you are beyond sex as such. Dance has miraculous power! It does not matter which type the dance will belong to. The main thing is to be together. The closer you are, the more intense the sensations will get. You must touch each other. Caress your partner by dancing. Flirt, tease. Embrace his body with his hands and whisper something exciting. Move your hand to his groin - and you get an instant reaction. Your bodies should touch, rub against each other. Believe me, even if you are dressed, the excitement will be simply colossal! In order to go even further, start to slowly take off your clothes.
3. Dance him what he wants.
This is the right way to bring your partner into indescribable ecstasy! In addition, it will give you the opportunity to feel really sexy! Technicality is not so important, the main thing is to be able to relax and enjoy life. If you are tense and nervous - he will notice it. You can practice alone, if you want. But together - forget about shyness and complexes! Choose clothes that are easy to take off, with sexy details. For example, panties with strings on the side. Undress slowly, gradually opening his gaze to more and more areas of the body. Remember the golden rules of striptease:
- He can not touch you! You can touch him, but his hands must stay in place
- Keep a glance only on him during the dance
- Leave your clothes where you left it. The look of the "cleaner" can greatly cool his ardor.
- Think about accessories. You can even combine this with role-playing games
4. Think up for him an erotic tale.
You will be surprised at how powerful a fairy tale affects a man. Especially if you voice it in his own images and fantasies. The idea is based on informing your man about the most erotic, sexual history that you can think of. There are two ways to create an erotic tale:
1. Make your own story, give vent to your imagination
2. Take a fairy tale from a book and change it as much as your general fantasy will allow.
As in a normal striptease, a partner is not allowed to touch you, but he can touch himself as much as he wants. This kind of sexual games is very effective and interesting. Try it for sure - you will be satisfied.
5. Time of fantasy!
It is for certain that the most common fantasy of every man is sex with a stranger. So become her for him! For example, you can bring a loved one into a dark room, ordering him to wait. You may want to tie his hands, although this is not absolutely necessary as long as he obeys you. Then tell him to wait, go out for a few minutes, and then return to the role of a stranger. Now you can do with it whatever you want, but the important word here is slow. The longer you play with him, the more he wants you. Speak to him in a whisper and make a lot of sexual noise when you touch him.
6. Have a sexy picnic.
We all know about aphrodisiacs and their effects on both men and women. The question is, how beautiful it all is. Get rid of all the distractions, turn on the music - and enjoy the taste. Some of the most sexy dishes are strawberries with cream, and chocolate. But not the main thing, that is. The main thing is how to do it. For example, you can put pieces of chocolate directly on yourself or anoint yourself with honey, or pour wine and invite him to eat or lick it all. By the way, you can do the same with him.
7. Erotic massage.
Massage should be not only when you are straining or stretching the muscle - this is one of the most erotic things that you can do to arouse each other, without actually having sex. Turn on soothing music, light candles and aromatic oils, and then proceed with the massage. Start from the neck and shoulders and slowly move down. You can use all parts of your hand, including your fingers and wrists, to change the pressure. Gradually, start moving towards the real erogenous zone. Pay special attention to the area, the touch of which leads him into ecstasy. Make sure that you stop before it goes beyond the excitement. You want it to be useful to you today, right?
8. Be energetic in the bedroom!
Physical activity really frees the endorphins, so necessary for us to feel happiness and pleasure. We do not suggest you to go for a run or spend an hour in the gym to get the right mood. But there's nothing wrong with being more energetic in the bedroom! Try to start with a pillow fight! Believe me, soon in the heat of the fight you will not notice how you will pass to passionate, passionate caresses. If the option with cushions is not for you, you can always try a bit of gentle armwrestling, fighting, or just a little playful skiing on the bed! A little sexual play-fight in foreplay, can lead to extra passion in bed!
9. Try virtual sex.
You do not have to be near your beloved to bring him into a state of excitement. Why not send him a sex message when he is at work? You can ask him questions that will include his fantasy: "Guess what I'm wearing today?" Or "What do you think is now in my hands?". Or, try sending him a photo on which you are making piquant things, if your phone allows. Remember that if he can not see the whole picture, then it really will irritate him. He will crave a meeting! If he uses a computer at work, then you can send him a flirtatious letter about what you want to do with him today - the hotter, the better. He can not resist, he will think only of you!
10. Able to caress yourself!
Have you ever seen how your man enjoys himself? Did he see you during masturbation? Well, why not try it ?! The beginning is this: you lie next to each other, or perhaps one of you is in bed, and the other is sitting side by side in the chair. Start caressing yourself cautiously, as if you were alone. At first it may seem a little strange, because normally you do not do it in anyone's presence. But, believe me, the embarrassment will soon disappear! If you want to use a vibrator - go ahead! You can not imagine how much a man looks like a caressing woman! Try to compete to see who can first reach orgasm. Or whose orgasm will last the longest.
All these erotic games before sex are simply necessary to deliver you and your partner the maximum pleasure. Leave your complexes! Trust your intuition and the power of attraction. Believe me, the correctly designed prelude is the strongest means for achieving a tremendous effect! To forget this is simply impossible!