Starting a relationship with a man, almost every girl wants to be able to build relationships with him that will last more than one night, a week or a month. But how do you know if a guy really wants to spend at least a large part of his life with you, or does he want only sex and do not spend his time better at all?
"Speak, I say!" ..
According to what the young man says, it is easy to determine what exactly a guy wants from a girl and how to plan to develop their relationship. If the guy at the first meeting constantly falls asleep ladies compliments, without stopping, says kakoyona amazing, beautiful, intelligent sexual, while not really listening to her and not paying attention to the opinion of the girl about anything, then he simply wants to quickly seduce the lady. The fact is that many guys piously believe that a woman can be dragged into bed, if you promise her everything possible and fill up with compliments. However, what is a sin to conceal, often enough it works. In order not to fall for the bait of Lovelace, always pay attention to what the guy says.
When a young man is planning a serious relationship with a girl, he looks at her, so he listens attentively to what she says, in order to understand her tastes, interests, values and goals. In this case, the young man will not be sprayed with words, because he simply can not say all this from the heart. And if a man is feminine, he will not lie to her. Therefore, rejoice when instead of the stream of compliments you hear questions about how you imagine your life in ten years or what you think about Mayakovsky's work. So, the guy just wants to understand who you really are, to make sure that this is the kind of girl he needs.
These eyes are opposite
On the attitude of a man can say and his svid.Esli guy attracts a woman sexually, he looks at the chest, the priest, evaluatingly looks at the figure. But when a girl is really important for a young man, he will look at her face and admire. Therefore, when dealing with a guy, watch closely how he looks at you. Eyes are not without reason called the mirror of the soul. A look can really reflect a person's emotions. If you see that the guy looks at you for a long time, and his gaze is clearly not focused on the major progeny charms, then he is in love. A truly in love man is always serious about the object of his feelings. But the one who looks at your body with a look and smiles meaningfully, most likely, dreams only of sex and nothing more. Of course, love can not exist without desire, but when the desire clearly takes precedence, there can be no question of any seriousness.
Gestures of movement
Serious or frivolous attitude of a man can also be recognized by gestures and movements. When a man always tries to support, grab a lady, if he does not forget to put a jacket on her shoulders, on a cold evening and holds her by the waist, and does not try to constantly lower his hand, then it means he has serious feelings towards the woman. The thing is when the man takes her arm, hugs her waist, over her shoulders, hides, which means that subconsciously he wants to protect, protect a person. And such a desire arises only in the case when the guy belongs to the girlfriendly. Immediately you can distinguish those couples where guys really like girls and those where a man just needs stable sex. This can be seen in the gestures that men do. And, it is not necessary to judge by whether a guy opens the door and gives a hand out of transport. In fact, it speaks only about his upbringing. Here the matter is quite different. When a man takes a heavy bag from a woman without a reminder, when he does not forget to give a hand where it is difficult for her to pass, when she simply embraces her in public with tenderness and not lust, this shows his serious attitude.
Sex
By the extent to which it is important for a man to enter into a sexual relationship with a girl, it is also possible to determine his seriousness. If a guy really plans to stay this lady for a long time, he will never insist on sex. Nobody speaks about what he does not want, but if a man loves, he can wait, because he respects a woman and sex in their relationship is important for him, but a non-essential thing. But in the case when the guy from the first days hints atks, persuades or even threatens to leave, there can be no serious relationship. Such a man just needs to share the bed with someone steadily. And if he turns up the one who more readily agrees, he will immediately forget about you. Therefore, no matter how much they say that in modern society sex is a very common thing, in fact, loving men can still wait and respect the decision of their girlfriend. Because as if they do not want sex , they still value their beloved too much to lose it because of banal lust. So if you want to understand if your guy has serious intentions, do not rush to enter into an intimate relationship with him. Many young women commit this mistake, faithfully believing that guys can not do without sex. In fact, a person who loves, will never throw a woman because of what she decided to wait with intim. Of course, the ladies of the toileen should go too far and delay this expectation for years. It is very nice and romantic to believe in sex after the wedding, but do not forget that in Temtura, when it was so, they got married at sixteen, and between acquaintance and the wedding usually took a couple of months. Therefore, in this issue, it is still not necessary to move the stick.
Actions and actions
But, of course, it is best to understand the seriousness of the men by the way he acts towards a woman. After all, serious couples often do not like to talk much. They make. But the girls, who, as you know, love with their ears, forget about it. In the end, they mistakenly take a serious attitude of multiple confessions of love. Although, in fact, the guy can say that he loves, only once, but will confirm this by a multitude of actions.
When a guy has serious intentions with respect to a girl, he always tries to make it better. For example, choosing a gift, he at least tries to pick up what she likes, and not just a trinket. A person who is serious about a girl never misses her problems and requests. He can remain silent, but he will do everything to help her.
When a guy really sees his future wife in a girl, he tries to become better, to be the one who can provide it, to please. And yet, everything that he does, he does just so without expecting something in return. He can come at two o'clock in the morning, just to say I love you and go home, not expecting that the girl will leave it at home and give a fierce night. Presenting an expensive gift, he will not pretend that she can give him something as valuable. No, he will just be glad that she is smiling. When a man is serious about a woman, her joy is the most important for him. It becomes for him the most important and he takes it with all its shortcomings and problems, with relatives who do not particularly like it, with children whom he quite sincerely can call his own. When a man has serious intentions, he does not frighten anything, because he knows for sure that with this woman he will be able to defeat any problem, because only it is his true happiness.