Experiencing loved ones is a normal feeling. But in some people it starts to reach paranoia, which is expressed in constant negative thoughts and fantasies, millions of calls and messages, with which they check whether everything is normal with the person. In this case, you need to learn how to deal with such feelings, because it is known that negative thinking can itself bring about trouble.
Uncreate the ground for emotions
Many women themselves create the atmosphere that is most beneficial for experiences of this kind. More often than not, it is viewing various broadcasts of a criminal and mystical character, in which it is said about the death of people, and this death is unexpected and inexplicable. We have learned to think that death can come only on some significant occasion, only to the old people and obviously not to our house. Such thinking is a defensive reaction before fears and it works perfectly until the person, due to various information, starts to realize that the tragedy can happen to everyone, and very unexpectedly. Therefore, if you understand that the fears for those close to such a paranoid character appeared after you were involved in various criminal stories, immediately stop watching such programs and read such stories. Of course, life is unpredictable, but it does not mean that trouble will happen in your home. The stories that you see and read, they are one by hundreds of thousands, even a million. And after they are viewed, you just have to become a bit more cautious, and not start constantly thinking about death. If you can not control your fears and emotions of this kind, just stop absorbing such information.
Negative attracts
If you are tormented by fears for your loved ones, remember that any thoughts materialize, both good and bad. And every time you involuntarily start to represent a picture of something tragedy, it all turns into energy that clings to the person you are thinking about. So you really attract trouble to him. Therefore, as soon as such a thought begins to appear in your head, immediately switch your attention and start thinking about something else. Remind yourself that the more good you think about a person, the more such events will happen to him. And thoughts about the bad can lead to the opposite, so that's not worth thinking about at all. Many people start to perceive their bad thoughts as symbols. In fact, the signs of fate can be easily distinguished from what you came up with yourself. Signs appear at times when you did not even talk about a person, and even more so, did not think anything bad or tragic. Often in dreams does not even dream, for example, the death of this person. You dream of some symbol that you, based on your intuition, can unravel exactly as a warning. If you constantly think that tragedy can happen to loved ones, naturally, your thoughts are recorded in the subcortex, which during sleep gives terrible pictures with accidents, funerals and so on, and the interrogation is in horror and you start thinking that this will happen . Take care of everything more rationally. Even if you believe in mysticism, you do not need to consider yourself a great psychic, who opens pictures of the future. Take care of yourself, your feelings and dreams more pragmatically, analyze everything. Only then can you understand when you really need to worry, and in which cases your feelings are just a consequence of constant self-winding and modeling situations that you are so afraid of.
Protect close
If you are so afraid for your loved ones, then try to protect them as much as possible from various tragedies. By the way, this speech is not about stopping everyone at home or calling everyone unsettled. In fact, if you are afraid for your relatives, you need to create for them energy wards that will protect people from harm. Many people are skeptical about such things, but the amulet is essentially a small clot-free energy, which is put into it by the person who makes this thing. That's why, if you want to protect yourself from something close, do it with your hands. It can be some ornaments, bracelets, motanki dolls, which from time immemorial protected the Slavs from troubles, and so on. In a word, you can do any thing, in which you put your energy, your love and your desire to protect the person. Therefore, when a person makes a charm, he needs to tune in to the person to whom he does it, constantly think about that person and wish him just good, wish that this thing protect him in any situation. When you do it that way, your amulet will work, if something suddenly happens. By the way, the person for whom you are making a guard, can not believe in his strength and be skeptical. The main thing is that all this is trustworthy, because it is your faith and your positive energy that will protect it.
If the person you want to protect refers to magic and such things are too skeptical, so do not want to take your wards, do not despair. Just go to church often and put candles for his health. Remember that any positive message in the direction of a certain person becomes for him protection from adversity. And if you often ask God that a loved one is alive and well, then a kind of amulet will form around him. By the way, in order to protect our relatives, we need to pray for them to God every day. This is not at all related to the faith. Simply, if you believe in the existence of God, ask him to protect those you love. You can communicate with the highest powers at any time and in any place. The main thing that in your soul really was the desire to protect and protect those you love. Just energy, which is supported by at least a minimal prayer, has a very strong message and will help your loved ones in a difficult situation and take their misery away from them.
But what can you do if you are a materialist who does not believe in any otherworldly powers? In this case, still think about the fact that good thoughts and wishes will still positively influence the people you love because our thoughts are still energy and the better the energy, the better will be the one in whose direction it is directed. So chase the stupidity of your head and try to think only of the good. Because, regardless of whether you believe in some higher powers or not, it's not in vain that there are only phases in our speech that carry positive messages. So they really work to protect a person from different hardships.