How difficult it is to resist the temptation, every woman knows. How beautiful is the dress on her friend, and what kind of house she has-a full cup. And as a friend everything is possible and keep the house clean and tidy and feed the children, lessons with them to learn, and also a handsome husband who keeps everything in the house. On the side does not go, his wife adores. "That's lucky!" Thinks the envious girl. And how in such a husband a girlfriend does not fall in love, so do not envy her.
If you fell in love with a friend's husband what to do. The most important thing is to stop all communication with her friend's husband, even indirectly. Avoid meeting with him, referring to the fact that you want to meet with your girlfriend alone, and her husband only prevents you from gossiping. Walk with a friend outside her house, in the park, go to the cinema, to the theater, but only without her dearest half. It will be easier for you not to be tempted once again at the sight of your lover. If you are a married woman, switch your mind to your own husband, he is also not as bad as you think.
And, if you are not married and only eyeing someone you marry. Then look closely at the friends of the girlfriend's husband, maybe there and for you the groom will be found. In any case, you need to do your own personal life, but do not break someone else's.
Of course it's very easy to advise, but it's hard to understand and let go of those feelings. In order that you do not go too far with your sympathy for someone else, you must start abstracting. This, when you can not change the situation, you start to adjust to it. You can not control your feelings, start creating. Write poetry, stories, put all your feelings and emotions on a piece of paper. Then, after reading all this, burn it and let the ashes blow with the wind. And with him and all your feelings let them go to another man.
You should always think about what you fancied for someone else. It's comparative to the fact that you like someone's chic machine. It is comfortable and cozy, but you will not steal it, because it is criminally punishable. So in life everything happens exactly the same way, if you take a man out of the family, this is also punishable, only by another court - the Higher.
Of course you can take your friend's husband away from the family, but think about it. And whether you will be happy with him. On someone else's misfortune, you can not build happiness. You will bear this burden all your life. Her conscience does not sleep. It very often makes itself felt.
Or maybe you just have a passion for him, a kind of animal instinct of the female to the male. Then, the more run from the family of a friend, look for yourself another object of lust. Men are many in the world, and a girlfriend is the only one that can be, for life. And for the sake of your unrestrained passion to break down what is built over the years, for which all this is necessary.
Summing up all of the above, you can make such a verdict:
If you are in love with a friend's husband, stop all communication with him;
If you are married, switch your attention to your own husband;
If not married, then find yourself a suitable party among friends and friends of the girlfriend's husband;
If you can not find a substitute for love, then start writing about your love and let the ashes blow the wind apart;
If this is just a passion, then drown it in yourself, by choosing another male.
I sincerely hope that after reading this article you will not have a desire to fall in love with other people's men, and especially in the men of your friends. Do not take upon yourself such a sin, for it will be rewarded to you in heaven for that.