Each girl sets certain goals in her life. Naturally, everything starts with a beloved, then a beloved man, children, career and other things. In principle, the picture is clear, almost all have the same vital rod. Not only to have all this, it is important that all this be real, true, valuable. Then it will not be necessary to resort to the question, called psychology: a happy family. After all, often in life is much more difficult than in books.
Despite the fact that all possible crises of marriage can always exist and lie in wait for almost every third family, yet happy families exist and exist. As psychology says, the family is happy in different ways, in view of the fact that families are all different. At the same time, happiness is manifested equally. Is it possible to study the signs of both spouses who are in this happy marriage? If so, it will be immediately clear what measures should be taken. Do you want to spend money on surprises not to yourself, but to your loved one, and go to your spouse's friends, even if you do not want to do so? You all do as you need! Your marriage will not only be long, but also strong. A truly happy family is not at all like submitting to a spouse, or complete obedience. Joint and interesting plans, precious dreams, or rest - are important moments for the creation of a good and friendly family.
Life without remarks.
According to psychology, a happy married couple is a couple in which no one reproaches each other with remarks. But this is not the whole list. To the relationship in a married couple were warm, besides, they remained so for a long time, to make any comments need delicately. Both spouses should be some kind of diplomats. Do you want to criticize? It is better to do this so that the addressee on the contrary does not take offense, especially subtly. The expression of his great discontent, or censure, much less criticism with a claim, a remark can spoil everything. It is never better not to reproach a spouse, and worrying for him, feeling sorry for him, is even worth it. After a rough remark, your man will not be attached as much effort as possible, so that his beloved is not sad, especially crying.
Budget allocation.
One of the additional reasons for family troubles is money. The spouse spends a lot, but her husband earns little. It is better to distribute them jointly and peacefully, besides without loud words, so that finances can not become the object of your discord. To experience a financial hardship, happy families can completely, but it is necessary to solve them as rationally as possible. To emphasize the main attention on who can and how much earns, it is not necessary. Money comes to the mutual budget, goes to the good of the family. Naturally, a man simply can not sit at home, while doing nothing, or the wife can not spend them immensely. It is necessary to coordinate their actions with actions with each other, while showing mutual trust.
The husband is especially the best friend.
The wife is better to consider not only a good lover, or an earner, but also a good friend. A good attitude towards the spouse is formed by the happiest families. A well-known psychologist named John Tottman came to the proof that the basis of a good family relationship seems to be friendship. It is not necessary to resort to foreign sources to understand this. And folk wisdom says that you can not cut the strongest friendship with any ax. Contradiction is not also tenderness with sexuality in strong friendship, as well as family relationships. In principle, the same as hindrance to friendship. To joke over a friend, or play with him, even to reveal his cardinal ordinances is necessary.
Joy in an intimate life.
The opinion that when sex is not at all diverse, it is necessary to beat real alarm, or that the family is unhappy, quite has the existence among couples. Scientists are more inclined to the fact that if these spouses rarely want to change their sexual positions, we can say that they are satisfied with all these intimate relationships. You can try new methods and experiment. Do people love each other while taking care of each other? So sex can not be a normal duty. A perfectly reasonable woman should know how to deliver a spouse pleasure, and how to behave either in society or at home. A little tease the spouse is not prohibited. You can, for example, iron the eye, while shaking the hair. This behavior will tell you about the woman's confidence, confidence in her sexuality and beauty.
Talk to each other.
A happy family can not be so if all grievances with discontent are kept deep in themselves. It is better to speak out about problems in a mild form than scandalously and recklessly declare. Learn to listen to your mate, do not interrupt. Persuade a man, if he suddenly is in something wrong, it is not worth it, it is better to just give a different point of view, saying about the possible consequences. Silence does not cause some embarrassment, accompanied by a sweet smile? This means that with a roll of glances the happy spouses understand each other and without different words. Do you think that there is mutual understanding in your family? Look at the way you both hold hands. Are your fingers intertwined? It is likely that the family is in perfect harmony.
Be happy with your most adored, beloved, beloved husband. And all sorts of problems let them leave you and go so far as to forget the path back. And they will never disturb you and your happy family.