In fact, the situation is really very, very ugly. Yes, any lady will be very unpleasant if a man brags about other women. Even if he talks about his valiant past, no one wants to listen to his stories. Sex at least to a girl, that's for sure.
Most young people believe that the number of women in their lives is a direct proof of strength, honor, popularity and other qualities that one can show off to boys. They do not even understand and do not try to understand how painfully they do to a girl when she says such things. After all, we, women, always need to feel unique and unrepeatable. And if a young man says this, immediately the thought arises that he compares you to others. In addition, it is unpleasant to realize that the guy, perhaps, is just boasting about your personal life.
Most of the men really do not understand the problem, and some just cunning and pretending that they are not meant to be. Of course, it's easier to just pretend to be a fool and tell a woman that he did not realize his mistake, rather than answer for his own words. Men are more herd creatures than women. To them, too much means the evaluation and praise of members of their gender. For this, guys just climb out of the skin to prove that they are the best. The number of women in a man's life is almost the main indicator of his virtues. They think that the only way to achieve respect from each other. Even a loving guy, often, always tries to support bawdy talk about women. Simply, he is afraid that others will find him weak and sloppy, so he even says what he does not think. Only now he does not understand that all the other guys think the same way. They are trying to show each other what they themselves do not really want. This is the problem of men - in some issues they are not at all sincere with each other, because they are too afraid to lose the brand. Often, the guys can talk about non-existent victories and together with the soul to discuss their girls, talking about how stupid and incomprehensible they are. Yes, I do not argue, women also make mistakes, but such conversations, in fact, are conducted because the guys are trying to prove to each other how much they are smarter and better than us. Men constantly try to self-assert themselves, due to our mistakes, or actions, which they consider mistakes. If a woman is guilty of something, in their opinion, she should be punished with such statements, so that friends do not doubt the power of character. Even if the guy is not going to do this, he can rant about changing his half for revenge for some small thing, for sporting interest or even for some stupid, completely inadequately motivated reason.
And what about women in this situation? What should be done so that the guys do not say unpleasant things behind their backs? Every woman wants to be appreciated. That's why, the news about such antics of her men, often puts the lady in a stupor, and then, leads to hysterics. This is not strange, because even if the girl was mistaken, she obviously did not deserve the treason and washing the bones behind her back.
In fact, such things can not be left for nothing. Of course, you can not react and pretend that you do not care. But, you can hardly endure such behavior long enough. Even the most calm and wise women, somehow do not stand up and then quarrels turn into an apocalypse of a local scale.
If you know that your man likes to boast of other women, first decide for yourself, but do you need such a guy? After all, maybe he really is a womanizer. And you want to share it all your life with different girls that you do not know about, and you do not want to know? Answer yourself this question before making any further decisions. If you understand that a young man only knows how to do such things in words, but in fact he is really loyal and loving, then it is worth trying something to change.
Of course, to begin with, you can talk about what happened, explain how unpleasant you are, and how it hurts, to hear such things from your very own and beloved person. But, unfortunately, most likely, this will not work. The guy will apologize and learn to cunningly lie. Therefore, if such a situation repeats, and it must repeat itself, it is necessary to behave more radically. Do not spare his psyche, spend time on tears and persuasion. In such cases, all issues need to be raised, to express everything that you think and, perhaps, even to put, ultimatums. You need to tell the guy that you want to be the only one. Feel confident and trust in everything. With similar antics, he makes you stop believing that this particular man can give you such feelings. Otherwise, you do not want and you can not. It's better to be alone than with someone you can not trust. And if you learn from someone about such antics, then there can be no question of trust. Humiliation of a man behind his back, what after that trust. Put the question radically: or does it change something in relation to you, or do you prefer to disperse. If a person really loves, he will reconsider his views and try to change, so as not to lose his beloved. Well, if a man brags about other women, because he is just such by nature and does not want to be monogamous, then why is this person needed in your life? It is better to suffer now than to suffer for many more years, from the third hand to hear about yourself gossip and the most strange and unpleasant stories. Remember that a real man boasts only one woman - his only and beloved, that is you.