A woman is not a weak sex
So it's in our society that the sex attribute is divided into strong and weak. This stereotype is so deeply ingrained in our minds that any deviation from "normal" behavior is perceived as nonsense. But is there any charter for which we must live? Why should our happiness depend on what other people, totally alien to us, consider to be correct.
A woman of the 21st century is an emancipated creation. She does not need pity or condescension. Onasama can give odds to any man. All girls want to be free and independent, at the same time they are crying that "real" men have died out. Yes, the times of the Hussars have long since passed, but today one can also find "one's own" person. Let's face it, we are not muslin ladies. To our inquiries can correspond not every guy, and in fact at them to us too there are the inquiries.
A man should have a rod! Oh, forgive me for vulgarity, but a man should have a rod only pants. And all the rest - it's far-fetched stereotypes. You want your man to be gentle and obedient, that he should devote all his time to you and "hammer" on friends. But in which of these qualities is manifested its, so-called, rod? There are no perfect people. All of us - a set of pros and cons, you need to put up with skotory.
Today, few people consider themselves weak and defenseless, so why should the women be considered men? As looking at "... and the horse at a stop will stop, and the burning hut will go in ..." the guy should understand that before him is a fragile and vulnerable princess? Women have an excuse - such men made us. Lies, lies, lies! Our parents did this to us (and thanks to them for this), they were preparing for adult life, they gave us the baggage of knowledge and skills that help us live in this world. They taught us to be persistent and strong, to rely on this life only for ourselves. So this is still a big question, who is the weak sex here.
You - "strongman", I - "weakling"
Of course, this is not an official strength. An imperious and strong woman always seeks to subordinate herself to her husband. It is possible to discuss for a long time what is the reason: either an unbearable character, or a fear of being defeated and a suppressed strong partner. The bottom line is that the choice of a weaker candidate to win her second half can bring happiness to a woman.
Yes, in this situation, they will have to swap places: it will become a giver, and he will be the keeper of the hearth. But who said that this is bad? We are talking about gigolo, which parasitize at the expense of beautiful ladies, we are talking about a couple in which a woman earns more and takes a higher position than a man.
Remember the Soviet picture "Office Romance." Here's to you an excellent example of how the relationship between a business woman and a completely average worker can unfold. And this happens not only in movies.
A woman who has achieved a lot in life wants her home to be waiting for someone who will love her, cherish and cherish. And quite often this role is best served by a soft-tempered and good-natured "middle peasant", and not a brutal macho or a successful businessman. The latter, naporiviv, choose women, which smogutudivit his assertiveness and success, but can you really surprise this woman-vamp.
Happy together
Believe me, a man next to a strong woman also has a hard time. Whatever one may say, nature takes its course, and the realization that one needs to be a bum in the eyes of friends, neighbors and relatives does not give him peace. But for such a man, the opinion of his woman is paramount. She is the meaning of life, it is his rock, behind which he is comfortable and calm. He does not need to take responsibility for making serious decisions, because the last word is always for the woman.
And what about a woman? With her, everything is also very clear. By virtue of her character, she already makes important decisions, commands and rules. She is not interested in life, and maybe just once. But she can always lean on this issue on her man. And how many of us can boast of this?
Bringing the line
It can not be said that there are many women who can stand next to a man-rag (no offense to the strong sex). Let these women are very few, but they are all the same and also have the right to happiness. If they are satisfied with such a life, if uncomfortable next to their "nedomuzhchinami", then we can only envy. And there's nothing to climb into their relationship with the advice "throw it", "you deserve more", "you'll find yourself better". Maybe he's the best thing in her life. Happiness to them!