So, if a man offered to meet: what answer, do you think?
Suppose that this guy is your friend , and if you:
a) Do you want to agree, then imagine that you are invited by a classmate, classmate or colleague at work. How would you respond? Surely she would have smiled and said: "Yes, of course. Where and when? ". In this case, the conversation will surely be non-binding, unless your relationship grows into a warmer, friendlier.
b) If a man offered to meet , and you want to refuse - formulate your refusal as courteously as possible, so as not to offend a person. Smile and say: "I would love to, but I can not. Maybe next time?". If a man persistently continues to invite you and tries to find out the exact date of your upcoming meeting, but you do not intend to meet with this subject in principle, answer with the classic phrase: "As soon as time is right, I'll let know."
If you were offered to meet a familiar man in a romantic atmosphere , and you:
a) You want to agree - flirt with him a little, languid voice say: "Yes, I would be very pleased to have dinner with you", build his eyes, in short, interest him and make him look forward to meeting with great impatience. Flirting is not a crime, but when you meet, you will be able to decide whether further relationships are possible with this man.
b) If you want to refuse, immediately let know that you do not want any romance between you. Say: "You know, probably, we will not succeed, you forgive. You're a good man, but I can only offer you friendship, not more. "
If the former guy offered to meet you and have a friendly chat , and you:
a) You want to agree - then do not remind him of your past relationship. Treat him like a really good friend, he knows so much about you and you have a lot in common. In this situation, you better answer what you think. You need to understand yourself, to understand if you are ready for reconciliation. After all, the former guy - this is a walking stress for you, because we, the girls, any parting is hard. Besides, you have to be sure that your ex wants a really friendly relationship. Do not hurry to answer, but try to find out what he really wants. You certainly have some friends in common who will provide you with all the necessary information.
b) If you want to refuse, tell him that you can not be friends, so it's better to remain just acquaintances, say that you do not hide evil on him, but you have enough friends already, and with him you have good memories that place in past, and not in the present.
If a former guy invites you to a romantic meeting, and you:
a) You want to agree - (think that the relationship can be returned), then do it so that he wants you, show him that for the time you were at the break, your life has returned to normal, and that you can not stand the gap with him a second time. If he really wants to return you, he will do everything to you to believe him.
b) If you want to refuse, tell him that you respect him and are grateful for all the good things that you had, but your life goes on and you want to build relationships with other people. Invite him to remain friends, but no more.
If an unfamiliar person invites you to a friendly meeting , and you:
a) Think about it - then first look at the stranger. Women's intuition often tells us who can be trusted and who can not. If the sixth sense tells you that everything is in order, then meet him and appoint the place and time of the meeting.
b) Think about giving up - just give up. Without any hints, flirting and the like. Say: "No thanks." If a person wanted to have friendly communication and no more, he will understand everything.
If an unfamiliar young man invites you to a romantic meeting , and you:
a) Ready to agree - then first, find out what his name is. Offer to arrange a meeting two on two - ask to come with a friend, and come with a girlfriend, choose the place and time of the meeting. If something goes wrong, the girlfriend will help you out, and meeting in your territory will give you confidence in the event of an unforeseen situation. Alas, in our time strangers are scared to trust.
b) I am ready to refuse - say it directly. Believe that you have a young man, if you do not have one. Do not give your phone number and do not hint at anything. If a person does not understand - just leave.
If your young man offered you a meeting in a romantic setting, and you:
a) Naturally, you want to agree - thank him for the invitation, and find out where you're going, and if it's a surprise, find out at least a dress code, or bring you to a restaurant, and you're in a T-shirt and torn jeans, even in design.
b) You can not go, but you are afraid to offend - kiss him, say some pleasant things, how you love him, apologize and ask to postpone the meeting. The main thing - do not lie to him, because you probably have a good reason, because of which you can not go on a date just when he wants. Trust is the most important thing in a relationship.
But you yourself should understand that these are just some of the situations that can happen to you, and they need to be considered, thinking about: if the man offered to meet, what answer? Trust first of all, your mind, do not do what you do not want, do not meet with those whom you do not want, and do not believe anyone if you do not want to. If you are offered to meet, then only you can decide. Think about whether you want to communicate with a particular person as a friend, or he is interesting to you solely with a hint of a relationship, and whether you want to communicate with him at all. Remember that we create our own environment. Good luck!