I'm tired…
Most often, the cause of ignoring is the banal fatigue. A man came from work, he does not want to talk to anyone, no one to write, and in general, his only desire is to quickly get under the blanket and forget himself by sleep. And at this time, call, write, worry, and think: why he can not answer, because this is a matter of five seconds, I'm worried. Perhaps in this situation there are quite justified reasons for ignoring, which you just do not want to notice. For example, if a person writes: "I'm at home, everything is ok." I'll go to bed, "you'll start asking him dozens of other questions:" Why did you stay so long? "," Did you exactly go to work? "," Why get soheaded? ", And so on. Sometimes we do not even notice how we can get a person with questions like these that have no special significance. Therefore, if in such situations a person disregards, try to analyze your behavior. Perhaps, he answered more than once, and ran into a flurry of questions that you asked him at the speed of the gun. Therefore, before you take offense at someone, try not to forget that our anxiety is not always sincere. For example, we can understand that a person is exactly at home and everything is fine with him, but we continue to throw him with questions, blame him for worrying about us, we tear his soul, and he does not care about swine. Remember that close people do not ignore us just like that. They do it for some reason. Yochen often, this cause is excessive anxiety and obsession.
I am really busy
Why then we never believe people who say they have been very busy. It seems to us that you can always pick up the phone, even for a second, even if you are in the office of the chef. But such thinking is only for those who do not themselves fall into similar situations. One should never assume that employment is a common excuse. If a person is very busy at work, if he is engaged in some serious business or simply spend most of his time behind the wheel, then his ignoring is entirely justified. So in any case, do not stand on him and blame it is not known what. Many women suffer love to invent events until the man takes the phone. Naturally, at the moment when the guy calls back, the girl is already so malicious and twisted that any phrase and any explanation perceives it as a mockery. That's why it's never necessary to treat someone else's employment with prejudice. Even if you really had something urgent and important, it is equally worth it to be angry with him and blame him for something. He is not a telepath and can not find out what is happening to you there. Unfortunately, many women can not understand this in any way, which leads to a constant "battle of the sexes". So try to be wiser. If you know that in a certain time you will need to solve some important problem in which the help of this person is needed, then inform him in advance and agree on the time.
In search of yourself
There are people who need to be alone with each other. And, for this, such a person needs more than one day, but a week, a month, or even a few. Yes, it is indisputable, this behavior is strange, but each of us has his own worldview and attitude. Therefore, close people can completely ignore us because of the search for themselves. And as if we were not sad and bored without them, do not rush to such people with accusations that they do not like and they do not value us. The fact that a person needs personal space is completely unrelated to love, respect and other feelings. Moreover, most often before going into seclusion, a person warns that he needs to stay one. But we do not listen to him at all. If we ourselves are bored and ill-mannered by such a person, then he should also be different. But if someone has rethought life, then his reaction to events may completely differ from ours. For example, if one person, going through grief, goes to the company, then the other, on the contrary, asks that they leave him alone and rethink the entire situation. So do not be afraid of such ignoring on the part of a loved one, let alone condemn him. Everyone has the right to live as he wants and experience certain events in the way that most suits him. Therefore, if you know that a loved one is ignoring you for the reason that he needs to be alone, then believe that it is really so. It is necessary for him to live as a hermit until a certain moment, until he has a certain solution and will not find a way out of the situation.