Inability to say on time does not create a reputation as a weak woman, and when the refusal is aggressive, you can still get a few troubles. A beautiful refusal puts the girl in the eyes of the guy a step higher. It makes me regard myself as a person whose views should at least be respected.
How can we observe this fine line between the neglect which is clearly heard in the refusal for the guy, and with an almost friendly conversation convincing the interlocutor that his proposal at least just is not entirely appropriate. By the way for the time the simplest option to refer. However, you should not use it if you are categorically not to continue flirting. Otherwise, you will be considered at least a fraud. The guy can be persistent. Very much depends on the most prevailing situation. On this girl be careful and do not put yourself in an uncomfortable position when you have to deny the guy.
To suggest a guy to be friends means to give up hope without promising anything. You can just tell the guy about him the most, how he is good, what a great companion he is, and in general just a wonderful person in all respects. At the same time lamenting about the vicissitudes of fate which is a villain, arranged so that you can not command your heart. But is it not enough for the situation of exits?
The main thing is to remain calm and dignified. Then your confidence will be an unquestionable argument. A little trick, try those yourself sincerely to believe in what you are saying. And then your will not be accepted.
What makes us girls say no? Dislike, lack of sympathy or just hasty conclusions about a person. To say a beautiful guy is not often more important and simply necessary when it's a colleague, worse than a boss, a friend's boyfriend, etc.
How to do it There are books of exemplary subjects such as "The Art of Controversy" they detail everything on apples painted as in the alphabet, will only have to practice in practice. In fact - it's much easier than it might seem at first glance, so every girl is desirable at leisure to read a couple of books of this orientation.
If it's time and beautiful not to say no then soon you will probably not be told. Maybe you should not try fate?
Remain natural, calm and absolutely self-righteous and with you will remain your freedom. Freedom to decide for yourself, while not listening to others. Freedom to remain yourself, with your plans for your time. And of course you should not forget about the most magical phenomenon.
Never lose a sense of humor, this is the best assistant in difficult situations. With a sense of humor as a flag, everything can be done with impunity. It's hard to be offended if the situation makes you happy. An ingenious and cheerful answer is invincible weapons. If the same guy is very persistent to impropriety, then it's no sin and sharp enough to put him in place. Here, too, your wits help you. Leaving good friendly or even friendly relations is not enough, a bad peace is better than a good quarrel.
Girls know exactly at an intuitive level with whom and how best to do. For this, and like guys, for sensitivity. Another thing is that the girl should take care of exactly how to say no, what would it be beautiful, what would the guy God forbid not seem to offend strangers. This is true femininity, speed