Is there a female friendship in the modern world?

Many representatives of the stronger sex sincerely believe that the concept of female friendship does not exist at all in nature, and the words "friendship" and "woman" are diametrically opposed views that will never find a common point of support.

The most interesting thing is that women began to listen to the opinion of men, mostly those who experienced deep disappointment in this kind of relationship on their personal experience. Tolerance in the modern world has become less room for really high relations, or it never was. However, at all times female friendship gave food for thought, discussion. Two thousand years ago, Aristotle, took an attempt to define different types of friendship and describe this phenomenon as a whole. About the female friendship they wrote classics, composed poems, songs. And if this concept has received so much attention, then there is a given model of relationships.

Currently, the mass media actively write about the fact that in today's world, female friendship has practically ceased to exist, as an independent unit of relations. Eternal employment, high rates, an acute shortage of free time generates friendships rather than friendly relations. It should be noted that here the opinion may be erroneous. On the contrary, there is a mass of supporters of what can exist in the modern world of female friendship, as such. It can even be stronger and more sincere than before, in conditions of less workload. There used to be more free time. A wrongly organized leisure of women, especially single women, can lead to the emergence and spread of all kinds of conflicts.

Friendship is vulnerable. The main criteria of this kind of relationship is sincerity, mutual understanding, self-sacrifice and the ability to accept another person as he is, without trying to change it and change it "for oneself." And, of course, trust and the ability to keep secrets. Not many people are aware of this. How many women who have been friends for many years, abruptly broke off relations because one of them could not save someone else's secret. There is a secret passion in the weaker sex to tell a secret to the whole world any significant news. Well, if this news is of a scale nature, in which many actors are involved - it is all the more difficult to resist. Perhaps, another weighty reason for the paramount importance, why the friendly relations broke up is treachery. When everything is mixed together: friends, husbands, wives, children. The change of a loved one with his best friend is a classic of the genre. A lot of women are betrayed. Most of them are forever disappointed and live, not allowing any more friends to come to their house. From their point of view, it is very short-sighted to be deceived again on this score. Others, again and again, stepping on the same rake, repeat their mistakes and continue to actively be friends.

As we see, an unequivocal answer to the question: is there any female friendship in the modern world? As always, opinions will be divided into two halves. And both these halves, the defenders of female friendship and opponents, will be right in their own way. There are many arguments for and against this phenomenon.

Adhering to optimistic views on life, I still want to believe in the best and to promote friendship, to give it the opportunity to exist. In any world: modern or past - friendship between women was, existed and will exist. Just someone was lucky, and someone underwent a huge disappointment, so there was a division of opinions into two camps. But women, in their bulk, people are quick-witted, sentimental. Therefore they have the ability to sincerely forgive and love. And these feelings are the driving force of the relationship between people and between two women, in general.