In our time the concept of "Women's Friendship" in many causes associations with rivalry, betrayal, flattery. Nevertheless, this question is often raised in various women's forums, which means that it contains an endless dispute "for" and "against." This has been debated for many years and no society can come to a common opinion.
The overwhelming majority of women do not share friendship at all with women and men, assuming that difficulties in relationships are always, no matter how strong and honest they are. According to the data of sociological polls, 56% of respondents said that.
Without a friend - the light is not sweet.
And almost all interviewed with tenderness talk about their girlfriends. After all, with a friend you can laugh heartily at some stupidity, discuss guys, boss, mother-in-law ... and anyone! The main thing is the certainty that no one but you two will know about it. Do you need to read poems in the park, wipe out the soles in boutiques or just watch the old film - you will always help a friend.
There is also a black streak in life, when the weekly depression and everything is falling from the hands, and the world seems gray and evil. It is at such moments that a friend always stands on guard for a good mood. She can listen to the whole day's accumulated problems and agree with you in everything, which gives her self-confidence and depression as a hand. Or maybe he could scold, scream, make himself pull himself together. That, oddly enough, will also work. As Aristotle used to say: "A friend is one soul living in two bodies."
Moral support of relatives is akin to a session with a psychologist. Psychologists say that a friend is a sexless concept. The main thing is that there is trust, respect, sincerity in the relationship. And the man had someone to pour out his soul on whom to hope and with whom to share his joy. After all, it has long been known that it is a true friend for you, as well as yourself. And who shouts into the phone and jumps to the ceiling when he finds out that he made you a boyfriend's offer? Best friend. So, there is a female friendship after all?
The reverse side of the coin.
In childhood, grandmothers, mothers and teachers instill in us a love of friendship, develop a sense of collectivism, loyalty and mutual assistance. And they never question the existence of women's friendship, but they place a great emphasis on the fact that it is necessary to be friends "just like that." Not for money and the status of a person in society, nor for free flyers in nightclubs and stuff, but just like that! Who knows, maybe that's why there are disputes about female friendship, that initially it was built on deception and profit. And it is possible that modern girls simply do not distinguish friendship from friendship. And, of course, when there is a conflict situation, betrayal and various kinds of gossip, many immediately ask the question: Is there a female friendship?
Betrayal is a very frequent argument among those who refuse to believe in female friendship. It is not uncommon in the business involved some handsome. He likes both friends, so much that it makes them forget about the years of happy and cheerful friendship. This is where the notorious rivalry between the best friends arises, who at once become enemies.
Anne Lindbergh believes: "Men play friendship like a football, and it remains intact. Women play with friendship, like a glass vase, and it breaks. " Maybe that's the way it is? Initially, the girls invest in friendship all the most intimate, dream together, value each other incredibly, and then suddenly again, and between friends like a black cat ran. The heart is wounded and bitter, the resentment to the whole world and the undeniable confidence that there is no female friendship - that's what remains. But there is still a sense of loss! Indelible, irreplaceable sense of loss of the native soul. It turns out that without a girlfriend in life, nowhere!