But this situation is ambiguous. It may happen that the woman did not know about there that the gentleman has a legitimate wife. She also naively believed and built plans for a bright family future. And the man chosen by the lady, do not rush to make an offer. When the truth nevertheless pops up (and the truth always pops up - sooner or later), then the woman experiences a feeling of deep resentment and betrayal. So the person is arranged - nobody likes a deceit.
A smart woman who thinks about her future understands that such a relationship with a married man will come to an end sooner or later. No, of course, maybe he too fell in love, divorced and will take the lady of the heart into legitimate wives. But often a man does not really want to break the already established and comfortable rhythm of life. Therefore, it would be better for a woman to stop her relationship with a married man. Not every woman, even with an extraordinary mind, will decide to part with a man whom he loves. In fact, give it to that other, legitimate. But men are not things and certainly are not anybody's property. Therefore, the expression "donate" in this case is not at all relevant.
How can we break this relationship? It is difficult, of course, to end a relationship with a married man. After all, in fact, a woman becomes dependent on him, from meetings and constant expectation. In addition, such relationships are inherent in the special acuity of sensations, because at any time you can learn about everything from your wife and then you can not avoid a stormy clarification of the relationship. Someone may like this life, filled with adrenaline, but still most women want peace and quiet family life.
To ensure that such a relationship with a married man comes to an end, you need to weigh all the pros and cons. Still, there is another family, and this man does, at least, not well. A woman should think about whether he will do this to her afterwards? After all, if a married man does not see anything reprehensible in meeting someone on the side, then, probably, he will not see anything wrong with what to change later and to her.
A woman should look at him more attentively, but is he good? He's a liar, even if he does it for someone. He does not differ in loyalty to family ideals, it is unlikely that he will turn out to be a good husband. A woman who meets a man of this type should be aware of what she is doing and understand that she is destroying someone else's family and encouraging deception and infidelity.
If you find out that your gentleman is not married right away, the more you think about the fact that you are a liar before you and he is unlikely to ever change his life. Relations with men who are married will not lead you to a normal life in the family and with children. Any person who has already set foot on the path of deception, most likely will deceive more and more.
Of course, there are situations when there is a really strong mutual love that can lead to a happy marriage. But, unfortunately, these cases are rare and it is better to let your chosen one be divorced (that is, completely ready for change and open to new relationships) than being married will constantly tell you that he is about to divorce.
Relations with a man who is bound by marriage are an inexhaustible topic. It is possible to stop such relations, you just need to very strongly want to understand the simple truth: the one who started deceiving will continue to do this even further. And then, it is likely that you will be already at the place of the deceived woman.