But we are talking about personal relationships, therefore, without deviating from the topic, let's try to understand the algorithms of interaction of such complex structures as man and woman.
Female mistakes
Sensitivity, emotionality and variability are the essence of female nature. It is thanks to these qualities that she is able to create gentle and sparking relationships. But such subtle tools in inept hands can become a real tool of destruction. Therefore, not knowing how to control your emotions, generously flavored with complexes and prejudices, you can become:
Too demanding
Let's say there is a nice guy, there are feelings for him and far-reaching plans. But something is wrong. Yeah, suppose he's reliable. So what? But he does not know how to say beautiful words. The complete set is not complete. And "not a complete set" you are not worthy or not - he just does not love you enough, if he loved - he would have done everything, only if you did not suffer. And to hear about it, he must, and as often as possible!
Tears, resentments and tantrums are not the best means of creating harmony in a relationship. This will lead either to coarseness, or to persistent immunity in the form of indifference. All the unpleasant moments can be discussed calmly. After all, you are not perfect in everything. Do not be his headache, and then he really wants to become better for you. And what's the point of doing feats, if the chance to see a grimace on the face of a loved one is anyway higher than a grateful smile? It's easier to be a "bastard" and a "chump".
Too selfless
Another common mistake is when a woman is excessively dissolved in her lover. She is ready for everything for him: to sacrifice one's own interests, convictions and friends, forgive all resentments and justify all vices. This tactic does not end well with anything. Firstly, if a person does not possess a sufficient share of decency, he, without thinking twice, will take you to manipulate and sooner or later will move to the category of the aforementioned "goats". And secondly, the exorbitant admiration and selflessness is, of course, pleasant, but quickly develops into importunity and, as a consequence, bothers.
Too intrusive
For a girl in love, the desire to see her darling at any free moment is more than natural. She expects this from her beloved. It seems to her that constant "breaking" is the main sign of affection. But the beloved can not share this position projected on him. Men and women have different attitudes toward such things. You are beautiful and desirable for him, but to feel it, it is not necessary to be around all the time. True, if your meetings are filled with exclusively reproaches and tears, they will become even less, and you will lose your status as a charming person. In addition, if a man is "crazy" exclusively for you, when will he get a "mammoth"?
Too independent
Of course, no one says that you should be an infantile teenage girl who can not answer for your actions, but if you always take the initiative, always leave the last word for yourself and make your own decisions, your man will relax, or even, what's good , zakompleksuet and simply escapes.
Men's mistakes
Although traditionally it is believed that the mistakes in relations between men and women lead for the most part to a lack of female wisdom, and men are emotionally more likely to lead, they can easily provoke an "explosive reaction".
Empty promises
They are given by almost all men. Probably every girl has heard about "stars from the sky" at least once in her life. And be sure: she remembers it. And he's waiting. Better be honest and look for a partner with whom you will converge on views on relationships. Of course, in a fit of passion, you just will not talk, and perhaps you were completely sincere at that moment. But it's better to prove your feelings by actions, not words.
Psychedelic reasoning
If you see that the girl is distressed by something (including you), you do not need to prove her point of view long and unsuccessfully (she will argue against you anyway), it's enough just to hug and apologize (you do not need to get down on your knees). If it does not work, then either you are very much guilty, or in front of you a hopeless case.
The hope of women's forgiveness
If you once strongly offended a woman, it is naive enough to believe that she will ever forgive you, although she may not even show it. And if she always has to forgive you, then one fine day, quite unexpectedly, you can come home from work and see the assembled suitcase (yours or her, depending on the housing and communal circumstances) on the threshold. Treason is also not forgiven.
Roughness and familiarity
Women for the most part simply can not stand it. After all, they want to always remain beautiful princesses. Familiarity and banter are the direct way to spoil relations. The same goes for the dull routine: socks on a chandelier, etc. (well, you know).
Excessive adoration
If you are ready for 5 hours to wait for it in the cold - it will be, undoubtedly, very pleasant. But if such a situation repeats itself with enviable constancy, then this may lead to the idea that you have nothing more to do. Such fans are very fond of ... collecting. But beyond this, the matter is unlikely to advance. In everything there should be a sense of proportion.
Of course, these are just the most common mistakes in the relationship of a man and a woman. Our biggest problem is ordinary human egoism. Remember that next to you is a person who does not have to correspond to any of your ideals and ideas.