"You do not have to swear, you're a girl!" - sometimes exclaims another real man, not understanding how a representative of the beautiful half of humanity can pronounce "dirty" motherly words. Sometimes such a phrase can be heard from an intelligent woman who also does not recognize mate. But is it really so terrible devil, as he is painted, is the mate really belittling the woman or the girl in the eyes of others? Let's figure it out.
So, first of all, I want to notice that almost everything is mated. An uncommon person who falls on his leg is something heavy, he keeps silent or says something really polite. I think many guessed what a universal word comes to mind when thinking about such a case. Therefore, all the "keepers of the purity of speech," which are fiercely spitting at the mate from the female mouth, especially if the person who is being disturbed is himself a female, is likely to be cunning or hypocritical.
It's another matter, of course, when a nice, charming girl at first glance, gets up in the middle of the restaurant and starts sending her companion a water place, accompanying all this with selective swear words that are not intended for children's hearing. It will look at least ugly.
As we have seen, situations are different. So when can a woman be acceptable, and when he is capable only of disgracing any young lady?
First, quarrels. In the heat of a loud and serious scandal, just do not say. A rare person, a rare girl, will stay away from a strong-spoken word or a sign of a message. We are not going to say that quarrels are bad, they should be avoided, and so on. All this is perfectly understandable, but the fact remains that scandals happen, nothing can be done. The main thing in this case is to remember the wonderful saying that it is not necessary to endure a quarrel from a hut. You can swear both with your friends and with your man, but do not do it in public. You will have time to quarrel, and shame will be for a long time hanging on you a heavy load in case you are noticed by common acquaintances. A koliustroite scandal in a public place, there is a chance that you will want to come there much more.
Secondly, the situation with the child. No one doubts that children can bring anyone, they are extremely restless, harmful, extortable and so on. But if you begin to publicly mate your own, and then more alien children - you will see like a crazy uncultured hamster who does not know how to deal with children. With children, by the way, it's generally better to limit the use of unpleasant words, otherwise they will disgrace you when your important friends, or in a kindergarten / junior school class, say a word with the letter "x." Children look at adults and constantly repeat everything for them, so if you forbid your daughter or son to swear, and you regularly and daily give a "bad example", your children will necessarily use mats. Naturally, if you do not care at all - please teach children to swear, etc., but if you care about its th and reputation, try to follow the sobstvennoyrechyu with children.
Third, cultural activities. It's not necessary to say that the abusive word in the picture gallery is tantamount to the smoker. Yes, this is just a formality, perhaps each of those present at home blames the matynaprav and left, but here and now the situation obliges to look like a proper way, that is decently and culturally. And the culture is not only a neat appearance, but also speech. You can whisper quietly in your friend's eye something that is matershinous, of course, if you do not have the strength to restrain yourself, because of the picture of the non-words, some mats, but do it as quietly as possible. So that no one will hear. This is an elemental courtesy that must be respected.
Fourth, the Internet. This is the place where you can safely wipe out and show your inner self. This is the most free place, nothing is obliged to anyone, virtual friends and acquaintances will perceive you as you appear to them, and on the Internet mate looks really natural. Another thing is that there must be a clever who hints that they are a girl, and girls do not have to swear, but you should not pay attention to such individuals. It is these and exactly on the Internet you can safely send on trivetselyh letters. Anonymity plays a large, sometimes significant role. When you do not want to spoil the reputation of a decent woman in reality, you can start a social network in the social network, where to arrange a holiday for yourself. This is said too loudly, of course, it is unlikely that someone is very happy when they say mats, but still, when you have to restrain yourself at work because of your bosses, and because of your children, you have to let off steam somewhere. The above completely does not mean that you need to speak mats wherever you like, on some sites they are actually banned, for this they can be banned. But somewhere is allowed, which allows participants to communicate freely and uninhibited. Especially common is not on decent forums, but where there is personal communication, whether it's a small chat rooms or social networks.
What is the conclusion from all of the above? A girl or a woman can swear, it's not forbidden, but it's better to do it at a minimum, not people, and then when it's "in the subject", not to be called "cattle."