Today's public fashion for collecting diplomas very often has nothing to do with the desire to gain new knowledge. Then, what is behind the motivation for obtaining a second higher education, perhaps, the desire to improve the quality of knowledge in the labor market? Change the profession? Or psychological imbalance?
Eternal student - it was a classic character in the literature of the 19th century. Now try, look back: they are already among us again. In modern society, more and more owners, who have more than one higher education. Psychologists say that higher education is just an instrument in our lives. Education has always helped us to adapt to society and prepares us for independent work. But increasingly it becomes an end in itself, a study only for the sake of learning. Many managers look at the too skilled worker with mistrust. What, then, makes a fully adult person go to receive another higher education.
Reason one: I was offended.
As it is real, but the complex of the eternal student is born from our childhood. Behind the set of diplomas lies a childish insult: a resentment, insult or dislike of our parents. The offended child sitting inside of us seeks to remove discontent with himself and receive the long-awaited encouragement from the community with the help of success in learning. And each subsequent education becomes another cover, under which the inferiority complex is hidden. A person has a thought if he has knowledge, and then he will become successful in everything that he does.
The second reason: I do not want to work, but I want to study.
Admit it: sometimes you really want to be small again? Do not make any plans without thinking about money. How to do it and where to find self-justification? Well, for example, again go to get an education.
Psychologists say: subconsciously studying - then, to remain a child. Continuing study, we demonstrate to ourselves and all that are not ready for adulthood.
Reason three: Oh, I'm afraid.
Fear of the present is another very frequent reason for receiving an extra diploma. And for the sake of diploma, and not for knowledge. You are now very much afraid at the time of the crisis not to find a job in your profession and just in case you go to get another one, so on a black day. So you, the level of anxiety moves. And this is a psychological disorder.
The reason is the fourth. Want to know everything.
Aspiration learns, can be connected simply with a craving for knowledge. We were all born with the desire to learn and to learn a new world, so the psychologists say. If you do not root in the child's love of life and curiosity for new knowledge, he will remain so for life. And then the desire for higher education will be connected with finding oneself, self-raising, curiosity and boldness, which is always important to find your way.
My baby.
Remember how our parents always did not let you skip school, forced to enter the institute? There are no parents who would not want a beloved child to get a higher education. Even if the child is over 30 years old.
How then to enter? The way to get our student to adapt to society and not go to school. Deprive first of his support - material, and then moral. If, he sees the resistance of his family, the student then starts to earn money, refuse to entertain, but will continue to learn, which means that he really needs knowledge, and not an excuse to stay in his childhood.
Surprisingly, when you start a new job, the presence of many formations can not always be a plus, even if the study was related to the desire for knowledge.
It is not necessary then and expect that additional higher education will increase your career ladder in the labor market.
If they met at work at first on a diploma, they see off after all through labor.