At a time when dating sites were just beginning to appear on the Internet, many lonely people, wishing to get acquainted, were very cautious about virtual acquaintance. A lot of time has passed since then, and sites continue to grow more and more. To date, we do not seem the last hope of finding yourself not just a partner for intimate relationships, but perhaps a husband or wife. Many believe that these sites have belittled the very idea of dating and perverted the love relationship in essence. And for many, these sites are fantastic opportunities to find someone. A new generation of people looking for their halves are regular users of a dating site.
You finally found the man of your dreams on the site. Virtual novel - to fall in love with a virtual yet interlocutor is easy enough. After all, communication with a partner is still in pink glasses. Even before the meeting with a virtual stranger you can find out about his habits and character. But when you meet, very often a new acquaintance, you may not be at all who you represented. He can be over ten years older, and below the centimeter by ten, and weighs a kilogram and thirty more than indicated in his questionnaire. This is how our consciousness works, if we are not told exactly some parameters of appearance, then we think out and finish them ourselves. If growth is unknown, then for us it will necessarily be high. Do not describe the exterior - for us he is handsome. After all, I want so much to be as beautiful as in a fairy tale. And how hard it is to shoot pink glasses and look at our virtual chosen one objectively.
What can we do to avoid frustration when we meet? Firstly, it is a project, and accordingly to a new acquaintance you need to treat as a project. First, you need to think about who we are looking for? New friend? A sexual partner? The future husband? And honestly write about it in the questionnaire. After reading several questionnaires and selecting suitable candidates, we begin communication. In this case, it's not a shame to write the first one. If he does not answer, it does not matter, we go to the second, the twentieth .. By the way, when you choose the person you are trying to get yourself into scoundrels a little less than those girls who sing out their questionnaires. The next step is not to delay this stage of acquaintance.
Since for many people online dating - just a virtual game, so these real meetings cease to be a goal. A virtual dating - it becomes a habit to get rid of which is sometimes quite difficult. It seems to them already difficult, to dress beautifully, to come to the meeting place. This situation has become so urgent that people are actually shocked when they receive a real invitation to a meeting by phone from one of their contacts. Many do not understand the fact that some include the button of their computer in the hope of finding a partner for a cruel, but real world.
A moment when you can catch someone's eyes, a smile and a shiver that you feel at the thought of impending passion. Unforgettable moments when a person smiles and lowers his eyes - hearing your name and all this can go away, as the calligraphic stress of a first-grader changes to the font you chose in the virtual world.