The popularity of petting
As a rule, the main meaning of the petting does not foresee a direct touch of each other by the sexual organs. For the first time, the petting technique became popular in countries where, because of high morals and stereotypes, great female virginity was of great value. And in techno-states, where they normally treated sexual intercourse between a man and a woman, on the contrary, the popularity of the petting was noticeably low. By the way, in addition to preserving the girl's innocence, petting was used for other purposes: avoiding sexually transmitted diseases, unwanted pregnancies, for introducing diversity into sexual life and just foreplay, which excites both
Petting technique
Petting is not so simple as it seems at first glance. Typically, the technique of petting is divided into superficial and deep, which refers to the lower petting, directed to the excitation of the areas that are near the genitals of the partner (hips, buttocks, perineum and the genitals themselves).
Superficial petting . His technique is to excite the aerogenic points that are usually available even when the partner is dressed. Such areas under clothing as the chest and genitals are exposed to caresses of non-repudiation. One of the most common examples of surface-drawing techniques is deliberately intensified kisses and hugs, the purpose of which is to get emotional relief from two partners at once. In other words, during a superficial petting, partners are given caresses without taking off their clothes. Of course, it is impossible to reach orgasm in this case. As the advanced pettinger would say in this case: clothes do not strengthen tactile sensations at all, the main thing is just to pick up a successful and correct outfit. Here the fabric is the most important of which the clothes of lovers are made, as a rule, it should be pleasant to the touch (satin, silk, chiffon). A separate word needs to be said about the underwear: it's very good if it does not create problems at the moment of touching. The more sophisticated pettingers make for a greater exacerbation of sensations and exotic moisture.
Deep petting . His technique is directly in the hands of the erogenous zone under the clothes for the purpose of excitation. Separate components of the deep petting are an integral part of the prelude to a pre-penum. A separate subspecies of deep petting techniques is usually considered oral (blowjob, cunnilingus). Sometimes deep petting equates to traditional love. In this case we allow the contact of the genitals, but only the penetration.
In addition to the technique of the lower petting, there is also an upper-pitting technique (necking).
Necking . Includes the caress of the upper body, as indicated: head, face, ears, neck and chest, including the nipples. In a word, it is all tenderness above the waist. The main emphasis here is on stimulating the upper erogenous dots, that they have an arrangement not below the navel. These most sensitive zones are stimulated by the lips, tongue, fingers, etc.
Sometimes there are cases that with the help of an upper petting you can provide an unforgettable pleasure to the partner.
The general basis of petting techniques in general includes a variety of caresses with their literate alternation.
Petting and imitation sex: can petting replace sex?
Petting is considered to be a self-sufficient element of lovemaking. By its principle, such an imitation of the sexual act is aimed at obtaining a partner orgasm without a deep penetration. On how realistic it is to reach an orgasm with the help of petting, the power of sexual partners' involvement and their ability to skip from traditional sex to other forms directly affects. Getting pleasure from caresses can fully compensate for a complete sexual intercourse. But there is only one "minus": if there is no discharge, there is an accumulation of sexual dissatisfaction, and this, as a rule, does not go to health for good. Just for this very reason petting is recommended as one of the options for sexual intercourse, but certainly not the only way to give pleasure. The end of the pettig can always be different. On the partners there can be clothes, and it can happen that the oblyubovnik can be completely naked. Very often petting gives rise to wild sex.
The female body is designed in such a way that in order to lose the head from sex, it is not necessary to go through the whole process. In this case, sometimes only a skillful petting is enough. Secondly, from the petting both partners get everything from sexual intercourse. Also this is a great way to learn how to get an orgasm. And finally, petting opens up a huge number of opportunities for experiments, which partners can not even think about when they are engaged in ordinary sex. Therefore petting can completely replace the traditional seks and give the partner much more new sensations and pleasures.
In which cases is it better to do petting instead of sex ?
There are times when sex for one reason or another is simply impossible, and it is very desirable to have intimacy with a partner, then you can discard the all-embracing surrender to caresses. Petting will become relevant when the girl understands that from one touch of a guy her skin becomes goosebumps, but she clearly understands that this guy is not a couple to her and they will not get anything further. Or when both partners are reluctant to start a serious relationship, believing that they will be a burden. Also, patting is a good way to make sure that "today" never ends, especially if the girl is sure that tomorrow she will not see her friend at one night.
Another option - when a girl wants to be close with a guy, but it does not cover the fear of intercourse. Therefore, petting is an excellent solution before the first sexual intercourse. And the last thing, after a petting, the lady will never regret the next morning what happened, that in the case of sex it is much more difficult from a moral point of view.
So you can safely say that petting is a common and effective way to deliver each other a maximum of pleasure. If you have not mastered the technique of petting today, be sure to try it and you will not only bring diversity to your sex life, but also solve the sexual problems.
And last, as the ancient legends say, priestesses in temples of the ancient world could bring a man to ecstasy with just one touch. So separating caresses from sex itself we have many opportunities to listen to our partner and make it pleasant!